Ngubani ongevanga ukuba "kufuneka ndibhale inoveli"? Bambalwa abakuphendula ngolu hlobo xa ubabuza ukuba ihamba njani lonto? okanye kuthekani ngobomi bakho? okanye, kwimeko embi kakhulu, engakhange abuze nokubabuza.
Sonke kufuneka sibhale inoveli, enye yobomi bethu. Ukwazi kuphela ukubhala i-biografi yakho yinto ehlekisayo, ukwazi ukuhluza iinkumbulo kwaye unike umsonto oqhelekileyo kuyo yonke into, isizathu sokumema umntu othi, ngokomgaqo, afumane ubomi bakho buncinci okanye bungabikho nto inomdla wokuqhubeka nokufunda.
UMary Karr Yintsika yokubalisa ngentloko, uhlobo lwentshukumo yoncwadi yaseMntla Melika. Uncwadi apho ukuxelela ubomi bakho sisingxengxezo sokuthetha ngobunyani, okusingqongileyo okhe wahlala kuso, ummandla, ummandla, idolophu.
Ubomi bakho buyeke ukuba bubomi bakho nje bokuzigquma ngeemeko, amasiko kunye ne-idiosyncrasies. Kwaye kulapho kuvela khona umlingo, ubomi bakho bunokuba nomdla ukuba ujongana nayo ngokwenzeka kuwe xa usixelela.
UMary Karr uyakwazi ukubalisa okwenzekileyo kuye ngokuhlekisa, xa edlala, okanye ngethoni ebuhlungu evela kula maxesha mabi ... Okwangoku umhlaba ujika, eTexas, ummandla wakhe ujika, imithombo yeoyile yedolophu yakhe ngelixa ubomi bukaMariya budlula ...
Kukho umlingo kuloo nto, umthamo okhethekileyo wokubalisa. Usuku lwakho lokuzalwa lunokuba libali le-soporific ..., kodwa uthini ukuba kwangolo suku lunye kwiminyaka engama-25 eyadlulayo kwanetha imvula enkulu kwaye kwafuneka ube wedwa kwindlela eyedwa phakathi komsebenzi wakho kunye nekhaya lakho.
Umzuzu unokunikela kakhulu. Wena ngaphakathi emotweni yakho, uvuselela ixesha ongasayi kuphinda ube nalo, ngaba kuya kubakho ukumangala endlwini yakho okanye akukho mntu ulinde wena? I-windshield inyanzelisa ngokungenamsebenzi ukukhupha amanzi, njengawe, uzimisele ukufuna ukukhumbula imihla yakho yokuzalwa yobuntwaneni phakathi kwesaqhwithi. Mhlawumbi uyayidinga. Ukungabikho koko bakuko. Ebengazokulinda namhlanje ngoncumo lwakhe xa uvula ucango. Kwaye kwiinkumbulo zakho ezinamanzi, kwicala lendlela elahlekileyo, unokuba kwiinkumbulo zakho ...
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Andazi, kuya kubakho okuninzi okushiyekileyo ukutyebisa inkcazo, kodwa uMary Karr wenza into enje kule ncwadi Iklabhu yamaxoki. Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ngakumbi malunga noMary Karr? Okwangoku ulazi igama lakhe kuphela, kwaye ungamkhangela kwi-Intanethi, kwaye ufunde ulwazi lwakhe kwiWikipedia, kodwa yintoni enye ongathanda ukuyazi ngobomi bakhe, iimeko zakhe, yintoni ekhokelele ekubeni abe yile nto ayiyo. ?
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