Ihlabathi linye, kodwa inyaniso inamacala amaninzi. Logama nje inyaniso iyinxalenye yobuntu. Inqaku liya kuba kukuqwalasela kunye nokukhupha okona kulungileyo kwimeko nganye, ukudibanisa oko izivamvo zethu zisinika zona. Kulapho unyango lweGestalt luhamba khona njengolunye unyango. uncedo. Kwaye ukusuka apho inokwandiswa kwiindawo ezahlukahlukeneyo kakhulu zokuhlalisana kwabantu. Ngenxa yokuba phakathi kwee-engile ezininzi zokujonga izinto eziguqukayo kuqhelekile ukuba kubekho iingxabano.
Indoda iyazi kakhulu ngayo yonke loo nto. UJoan Garriga osenza ukuba sifike ezincwadini zakhe imodus operandi ukuze sijongane neengxaki kwiindawo zeentsapho okanye kwenye inqwelomoya ethe kratya elawula ngandlel’ ithile kwiqonga lethu langaphakathi. Kuba naluphi na uhlobo lokuphucula kufuneka luphume ngaphakathi. Ngenxa yokuba kukwahluka okuchaza ubunyani, kunezisombululo, sinikwa ezinye iindlela kunye norhwebo. Olona khetho lulungileyo, isigqibo, kunye nesimo sengqondo zivela kuphela koko kugxininiswa kwangaphakathi.
Iincwadi ezi-3 eziphezulu ezicetyiswayo nguJoan Garriga
Uthando oluhle kwesi sibini
Uthando olufanelekileyo luluncedo ukuze lungabhidaniswa nentaphane yokutolika malunga nelo qumrhu eligubungela igama. Nokuba zithini na izigaba zothando okanye iimeko ezilomelezayo okanye ezilwenza buthathaka, luphawula ezona ndlela zingalindelekanga, uthando olulungileyo lolo, lolo lumisela ububele bokomoya phantse kuyo yonke into.
Le ayisiyoncwadi malunga nento oyenzayo okanye ongayenziyo kubudlelwane. Ayithethi ngeemodeli ezifanelekileyo. Ithetha ngobudlelwane obahlukeneyo, kunye nezikhokelo kunye neendlela zokuhamba. Kodwa kwanemicimbi edla ngokwenza ukuba izinto zisebenze okanye zihambe kakubi kwisibini, kunye nakwizithako eziququzelela okanye ezithintela ukwakha ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nokuzigcina. Ukongeza, inika imikhondo ukuze umntu ngamnye afumane ifomula yakhe, imodeli yakhe kunye nendlela yabo yokuphila njengesibini.
UJoan Garriga, isazi ngengqondo yeGestalt kunye nengcali kumaqela eentsapho, ugqirha oyingcali oye wabona izibini ezininzi ziza ngokubonisana kwakhe, ikwenza kucace ukuba kubudlelwane akukho kulungileyo okanye kubi, unetyala okanye umsulwa, ulungile okanye aboni. «Into ekhoyo kukho ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nobubi: ubudlelwane obusityebisayo kunye nobudlelwane obusihlwempuzekileyo. Kukho ulonwabo nosizi. Kukho uthando oluhle kunye nothando olubi. Kwaye uthando alwanelanga ukuqinisekisa inhlalakahle: uthando oluhle luyafuneka.
Yithi ewe ebomini
Ukucinga ngolonwabo njengomtya osikhokelela kuhambo olumnandi ngokuphila akunangqondo njengoko kungenamsebenzi kwaye kuyakhathaza. Yonke into ikhona ngezichasi zayo, ngokunjalo nolonwabo olufuna usizi ukuthatha umlinganiselo wokuba yintoni na kwaye ingaba yintoni na.
Siyazi ukuba asinakusoloko sonwabile, yaye nangona siyiqonda le nyaniso, siziva singenako ukujamelana neentlungu nokubandezeleka xa zivela ngaphandle kwesilumkiso. Kodwa inyaniso yeyokuba amaxesha amnandi obomi ebengayi kufunyanwa ngamandla anjalo ukuba ezona ntsuku zibuhlungu bezingekho. Ukuba siyabandezeleka kungenxa yokuba siyakwazi ukuthanda, kodwa ubudlelwane buphawulwa ngelahleko, ukungcatshwa kunye neengxabano; ubunzima obusongamelayo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha bubangele ukuba singakwazi ukuguqula amanxeba ethu abe lithuba lokukhula.
Kule ncwadi enethemba, uJoan Garriga usinika iminyaka engaphezu kwamashumi amathathu yamava kunye nolwazi lwakhe ukuze sifunde ukuhamba ngeemvakalelo ezinzima njengokubandezeleka kwaye zisifundisa, ngokungathi sihleli kwiseshoni yonyango kunye nemizekelo yokwenyani, ukuyiqonda, ukuyamkela kwaye uyiguqule ibe ngamandla asivumela ukuba soyise ubunzima.
Ziphi iinkozo? Izitshixo zeqhina eliphunyeziweyo phakathi kwabantwana nabazali
UConfucius sele esifundisa ukuba nguye kuphela owaziyo ukonwaba ngayo yonke into onokuhlala evuya. Kulo mgca, ukubalekela i-passive conformisms kunye nokuyeka ubuxoki, sifumanisa ukuba igama eliyimfihlo elivula iingcango zokuzaliseka komntu zenziwe nge-syllable elula: EWE. EWE. Kubomi, njengoko kunjalo. Kuthi njengoko sinjalo. Kwabanye, njengokuba benjalo. Kubazali bethu, njengoko benjalo nanjengoko babenjalo, izithuthi ezibonelela ngobukho bethu nokunye okuninzi.
Lo ngumyalezo otyhilwa nguJoan Garriga Bacardà kule ncwadi, njengombongo njengoko uphembelela ukucinga kunye nokutshintsha, kumbandela obalulekileyo osikhathazayo sonke: inkqubo yokuthatha imvelaphi yethu, ilifa lethu losapho kunye nokufumana ngalo indawo yethu emhlabeni. . Isicatshulwa sibhiyozela ubomi ngaphandle kokuphazamisa ubunyani babo kunye nobukrwada, sisuka kude kwi-psychology eyakhayo eyenziweyo.
Ziphi iingqekembe? Inikela iimbono ezintsha ngomphefumlo, kwabo babandezelekayo xa becinga ngabazali babo nakwabo benjenjalo ngombulelo. Ithetha ulwimi loxolelwaniso noxolo. Ibonisa amandla othando kunye nendlela yokudibanisa kunye nokunqoba amanxeba athintela ukuzala kobomi bomntu.
