Lonke uncwadi lwe uncedo inecala lokungena ngakumbi, ngakumbi "ngokwengqondo" ukuthetha okuncinci kunye nolunye ukhetho lweemvakalelo. Ingxaki yakudala phakathi kwesizathu neemvakalelo, phakathi kobukrelekrele kunye nethuku. Ngaphandle kokucinga ngesi sizathu kukuchasana ngokupheleleyo kwezi zimvo, kuba ekugqibeleni kubonisa ukuba ukulingana okugqibeleleyo okuvela kulwazelelelo lweemvakalelo zangaphakathi ...
Ngapha koko, UPablo Arribas ihlakulela ngakumbi ukhetho lwesibini ngokoncedo lokuzinceda, elo cebiso, laa placebo iveliswe njengechiza eligqibeleleyo elenziwe ngaphakathi komntu ngamnye. Zonke izivuseleli ezilungileyo, akukho i-hangover okanye iihambo ezimbi. Le yindlela uncwadi olusondela ngayo kulonwabo ngenxa nje yalo, kunye nezinye izikhokelo eziphambili ezinokusebenzela ukucinga kwakhona ngobomi ukusuka kwingcamango yokulula eyonwabisayo kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuba ekugqibeleni uzivumele ukuba uhambe ...
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Phila ngendlela ebuhlungu ukushiya
Isihloko esidibanisa naloo max esibonisa ukuba umntu akufuneki abuyele kwiindawo ebevuya kuzo. Inqaku elileli lokuba ukuba yonke into ocinga ukuba wonwabile ikwixesha elidlulileyo, siza kube siwele kumgibe wobunxunguphalo. Kwaye kunokuba buhlungu ukushiya xa sinokuninzi kokwenza. Kodwa akunakusenzakalisa ukubuyela kukhangela into esele iphile, kuba oko akunakwenzeka, kubuhlungu kwaye kuchasene ngokupheleleyo nobomi bobomi uqobo.
Kungoko le ncwadi yalatha kumzuzu olungileyo weentlungu zomdlalo. Kungenxa yokuba le ntlungu ibangela umlinganiswa oza kusondela kuwo ekufuneka eze kulo naluphi na uhlobo lohambo alwenzileyo.
Kuluntu oluthintela iintlungu kunye nokungonwabi, umnxeba oya kwisibindi uyimfuneko. Uloyiko, ukudana, okanye usizi azichasananga nothando, inkohliso, okanye uvuyo. Yonke into iyinxalenye yamava okuphila. Ukuba sifuna ukubanqwenela iziqu zobomi zegolide, kufuneka sikulungele ukuwa phantsi kwaye sizive sidimazekile. Enye into edla ngokuba yindawo ekumgangatho ophakathi, indawo apho kuthintela ukwenzakala sivala iingcango zezona zihlandlo zibalaseleyo. Ngelishwa, abantu abaninzi bayayikhetha.
Phila ngendlela ebuhlungu ukushiya yifilosofi yobomi enesibindi esisondeza emaphupheni kunye nokunxibelelana okunzulu ngokuzibandakanya, ubunyani kunye nesibindi. Umvuzo? Ndiva ukuba, ngaphandle kwamanxeba, ubukho bethu bube kufanelekile.
Emva kwempumelelo ye- Indalo yonke yokulula, UPablo Arribas usimema ukuba sibe ngabalinganiswa abaphambili bembali yethu, sidibanisa ukubonakaliswa kwakhe esele kuqatshelwe ukukhula kwakhe buqu kunye newaka kunye nehambo zakhe kulo lonke uhambo lwakhe kwihlabathi liphela.
Indalo yonke yokulula
Kwenzeka ntoni kuthi. Kukho ii-inertia ezibonakala ziphawula isantya somntu wonke. Njengohlobo oluthile lwekamva kunye nokuzenzisa kwentshabalalo enyakazisa imihla yethu. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba inyaniso ibiyintelekelelo yokoyiswa okuthile, isimemo sokufikelela incopho kolo sukelo luyintloko kukufa ngokudlula ngendlela eyintlekele kwimihla yethu. Ukuqhawula naloo mvakalelo ingacacanga njengoko idume kakubi ngumbandela wokusondela suku ngalunye ngamathemba amancinane angenanto yakwenza noko basithengisayo kunye nokunganeliseki kwezinto eziphathekayo ezifanayo.
Zibuze lo mbuzo ngokunyanisekileyo: ngaba uhlala njengoko waphupha okanye ushiye inxenye yobomi bakho ezandleni zoloyiko, ubunzima okanye uluvo lwabanye? Ukuba ungomnye wabantu abanqwenela ubomi ngentliziyo epheleleyo, inye kuphela indlela: isibindi. Bukela ukuziva. Bukela ukuba nguwe. Bukela ukuthanda. Ngamafutshane, yiba nobuganga bokuphila!
Indalo yonke yokulula luphuhliso lomntu kunye neprojekthi yokukhula esele ikhuthaze kwaye yanceda izigidi zabasebenzisi be-Intanethi kwiwebhu. Umyili wayo, uPablo Arribas, wabelana kule ncwadi ngama-50 okubonisa ulonwabo ngehlombe, ithemba kunye nokulula.
« Yonke imihla ithuba elingaqhelekanga livuleka phambi kwethu lokumamela iintliziyo zethu, silibale ngokungenakwenzeka, sonwabele uhambo kwaye sibuyise amaphupha ngokuhombisa, ukubaluleka nendawo abayifaneleyo. Lixesha lokuba siphakamise amazwi ethu kwaye sizikhumbuze ukuba sinobomi obunye kuphela kwaye kufanelekile.. "
Ibhlog kaPablo Arribas Indalo yonke yokulula Ibe ngowokugqibela kwiBlog yeMfundo kunye neNzululwazi yeBlogácoras Awards 2015 kunye neblogi evotelwe kakhulu luluntu kwicandelo layo.
Intloko, intliziyo kunye namathumbu
Imalunga nokudibana njenge-reflexology entsha yeyona nto icace gca, ehambelana nenkqubo nganye esisiseko yeedrive zethu kunye neengcinga zethu. Kuba kwitangle yento esiyiyo sinokuzahlula kwisiseko sokuqala se-chromatic. Kwaye sihlalutye yonke into kwiindawo ezinje, kuhlala kulula. I-York Ripper sele isitsho njalo.
Zintathu iindlela zothando: ngentloko, ngentliziyo kunye nangamathumbu. Kwintloko, ukufuna kuthiwa kukhetha; entliziyweni, ukuthanda, nasemathunjini, ukunqwenela. Nokuba ufuna ngazo zontathu ezi zinto, okanye umiselwe isiphithiphithi.
Uninzi lweengxaki zethu zothando zibangelwa kukungalingani phakathi kwentloko, intliziyo kunye namathumbu. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba sinokubenza basebenze ngokuvisisana? Kuthekani ukuba, ukongeza, kwakulula kunokuba sicinga? Kwaye, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, kuya kuthini ukuba apha endleleni sifunde ukuthanda nokubonwabela ubomi ngendlela engazange ibekho ngaphambili?
UPablo Arribas sele ephefumlele kwaye wanceda izigidi zabantu ngenxa yebhlog yakhe yophuhliso lomntu kunye nencwadi yakhe yokuqala, Indalo yonke yokulula. Intloko, intliziyo kunye namathumbu Incwadana yesikhokelo yokubonisa uthando, isizungu kunye nokuzikhathalela, abanye kunye nobomi. Incwadi egcwele amabali akhuthazayo kunye nezitshixo ezisisiseko ekwakheni enye yezona zibophelelo zikhethekileyo nezincedisayo: esi sibini.
Le yincwadi yabo bonke abo bangathandabuzekiyo, benza iimpazamo, kwaye babeka iintliziyo zabo etafileni. Ngokufutshane, le yincwadi yabo bonke abo banqwenela ukuba ngabathandi bokwenene.
