Iincwadi ezi-3 ezilungileyo nguJavier Iriondo

Kolo ncwadi lucebisayo esele lubhale uhlobo oludumileyo olwenziweyo kwifayile ye- uncedo, uninzi lwabo bazenzela izihomo ezincomekayo njengokulinganisa, ukonwaba okanye nokuyeka ukutshaya.

Aba ngababhali abanikezela oko Ingcebiso ekhankanywe apha ngasentla ukusuka kumzekelo okanye indlela eya kwintlanganiso yamandla kunye neendlela zokujongana nobunzima, nokuba kukuqina, ukoyisa okanye ukoyisa nakuphi na ukungakhathali okungalunganga.

Sifumana imizekelo eliqela eyaziwa njengeleyo ye Iseti ye-Elsa, ukusuka ngokomoya ukuya Marie Kondo kweyona pragmatic. Kumhlaba ophakathi ndiza kubeka i UJavier Iriondo Esebenzisa phantse iindlela zokwenza inoveli ukusasaza izimvo ezintsha kule ndlela yophuculo.

Ukuqonda ukuba olu hlobo loncwadi luvakala kuninzi njengemizamo yokungaziphathi kakuhle, okanye ubuchule bokuqeqesha, ngayo yonke loo nto ichaphazela ubuchwephesha bengqondo.

Kodwa akukaze kube buhlungu ukuya komnye waba babhali ukuze athethe ngolwazi lwezibakala kwaye ufumanise ukuba, kutheni? Olu hlobo loncwadi lunokukuphucula kwinkalo ethile nokuba ucinga ngokucinga ngayo nayiphi na indlela.

Iincwadi ezi-3 eziphezulu ezicetyiswayo nguJavier Iriondo

Apho amaphupha akho akusa khona

Kwimeko yayo emangazayo, olu hlobo lwe-hybride phakathi kwenoveli kunye noqeqesho olusuka kumzekelo wokufanisa lufikelele kubafundi abaninzi abanomdla wokufumana imeko apho banokufumana khona eyona ndawo iphambili phakathi kwemiceli mngeni ojamelana nayo kunye noloyiko okanye ubunzima obunzima.

Ayisithi sonke esinokuya kwiiHimalaya kwenye yezo ndawo zinomdla. Kodwa uDavid, ophambili kweli bali, uphethe ukuba sherpa yeemvakalelo zethu kuhambo olunesiquphe, esinzima. Nayiphi na intaba inokubonakala ingenakufikeleleka xa umbono wethu woloyiso ulinganiswa nokusilela okanye intlekele.

Kodwa uDavid, emva kohambo lwakhe oluthile entlango yeemvakalelo zokudakumba, uphinda avele kwindawo yobomi bakhe ngamandla amatsha, aphinde abulele ukubonakala kukaYoshuwa oyintsumantsumane. Ngokudibana naye, uDavid uza kuphinda ayenze loo nto inyukayo ngaphezulu koloyiko ngokuzimisela, abone ephezulu ukuzazi kwakhe ukuba olona tshintsho luqinisekileyo lunokwenzeka.

Indawo ebizwa ngekamva

UYoshuwa, isikhokelo esithile apho uDavid wayenokucinga ngokuzama kwakhona, uyanyamalala ngonaphakade kubomi bukaDavid, mhlawumbi njengesikweko somzuzu ofanelekileyo wokuvalelisa kubo nabaphi na abasebenzi abaxhasayo ngaphambi kwayo nayiphi na into ebalulekileyo.

Kodwa uYoshuwa wayenelifa elibalulekileyo kuDavid, incwadi apho unokujonga khona ngamayeza akhokela iimvakalelo. Ukusuka kwiiHimalaya ukuya eBoston. Ngombono ongatshiyo wokoyisa uloyiko, uDavid uza kwenza imiceli mngeni emitsha enje ngokunceda abahlobo bakudala okanye ukuphinda afumane uthando kumfazi onje ngeVictoria, ahamba naye olona hambo lubuhlungu kakhulu, uloyiso lothando.

Ngomnwe wakhe wobuxoki, uJavier Iriondo ngoku usibeka kwindawo enabantu abaninzi. Emva kokuba utyale elona cebo lomntu, lixesha lokuba ujongane nolwalamano kunye nemo engqongileyo yentlalo.

Amanyathelo alishumi kwincopho yakho yobuqu

Ngempumelelo yebali likaDavid (kwizitofu zakhe ezibini), uJavier Iriondo uye waphuka ngendlela ebonakalayo nangakumbi kwifomathi yesincoko, indlela yenguqu yomlinganiswa wakhe ukuyandisa kuzo zonke iimeko.

Ngomnxeba osisiphumo sokomelela, umbhali ufuna ukubonelela ngokuzala okuhlala ngokulinganayo ngamagama kunye neefani: ukukhula komntu. Lixesha lokuba siqwalasele ngale ncwadi ukuba yintoni kanye kanye esiyifunayo ukuze sizame ngokukhawuleza ukunyuka ipiramidi yeMaslow ukuya ekuzizalisekiseni.

Incwadi ekwafuna umzekelo obalaseleyo womfanekiso, webali. Umsebenzi kwizahluko ezili-10 kunye nenxalenye yawo yokunxibelelana ukuze usebenze njenge-vademecum ekuphiliseni kwethu, iqondwe njengenguqu okanye uhlengahlengiso ukufezekisa oko sikudinga ngokwenene.