Aia kekahi mau manawa ʻo kēlā kāne i hoʻopuni ʻia e nā mea lapuwale i kēlā me kēia o kākou. He mau manawa kēia, i ka hopena, ʻike mākou ke hoʻokele nei mākou ma ke ala nui kahi o mākou wale nō ka hewa. A logical hiki i nā hopena ke paʻi mākou iā mākou iho ..., e lawe nei i kahi ʻōlelo hoʻohālikelike maʻalahi, me ka ʻike ʻole.
Akā ke kumu o kāu. ʻO kā mākou kumu ka mea pale nui o kā mākou kumu āpau, mai ka mea maʻamau a i ka mea nui.
A eia mākou i ka puʻuwai o kēia mea. ʻAʻole naʻaupō lākou āpau e like me kā lākou e ʻike ai, ʻaʻole hoʻi kahi kiko o ka hahau ʻana iā mākou iho e noʻonoʻo ana he pono mākou e hōʻike i ko mākou kūpaʻa mau.
ʻO ka mea a Thomas Erikson i hāpai aʻe nei no mākou i loko o kēia puke ʻo ka pilina a mākou e hoʻokumu ai ma waena o SUBJECTIVITY - REALITY - OBJECTIVITY, kēia mau mea āpau e kū nei i ka kamaʻilio a me ke ʻano o ka kamaʻilio. ʻO ke kukui o ka laʻana, ka lehulehu o nā laʻana i hōʻike ʻia iā mākou i loko o kēia puke e kōkua iā mākou e loiloi i kā mākou mau hewa ponoʻī ke kamaʻilio pū a ʻike i nā hewa ma waho o ka mea hoʻopuka i nā leka a mākou i mua o (maopopo mai kāu. wahine a mau keiki paha i kou haku, e hele ana ma ka bureaucrat ma ka puka aniani 4 e hoʻāʻo nei e hoʻomaopopo i kāu mea e wehewehe ai)
Hiki ke kōkua iā mākou i ka hoʻoponopono hou ʻana i nā ʻāpana like ʻole o ke kamaʻilio ʻana, keu hoʻi i ke kamaʻilio ʻana, e hoʻopuka maikaʻi aʻe a loaʻa i nā ʻano memo like ʻole. Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo he huina o nā kumuhana i hoʻoholo ʻia e hoʻokau iā lākou iho kekahi i kekahi, e kōkua ia iā mākou i kēlā manaʻo maikaʻi o ka empathizing, ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana a me ka lawe ʻana i ke ala ʻoi loa i hiki i nā mea āpau a mākou e makemake ai e hōʻike.
A laila e hana paha i ka mālamalama, a ʻo kēlā mau mea lapuwale e nalowale mai kou ʻike hewa ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. Ma muli o ka mea, ʻoi aku ka akamai o kekahi e like me ka hiki ʻole iā ʻoe ke lilo i kona ola a pau e hoʻāʻo ana e ʻike iā ʻoe me nā mea lapuwale, no ka mea ʻo ʻoe ke lilo i hoʻokahi o lākou ... 🙂
Hiki iā ʻoe ke kūʻai i ka puke ʻO ke kāne i hoʻopuni ʻia e ka poʻe hūpō, ka mea hou loa mai Thomas Erikson, eia: