Kuleyo ye uncedo sifumana igurus kolona qeqesho lugqwesileyo kwipsychology, psychiatry, sociology okanye nantoni na. Kodwa kukuba kamva songeza abacebisi ababalaseleyo kumava nokuba kungenxa yokomelela, umoya wokuzama okanye impumelelo enkulu kwintsimi ehambelanayo. Kwaye kungenxa yokuba abantu bakufuna kakhulu ukukhuthazwa ukuze bajamelane nemihla ngemihla ukuze bafumane okona kulungileyo kuthi.
Kwaye kukho umntu ofana noMark Manson. Kwaye kusenokwenzeka ukuba olu phawu lutsha lokuzinceda lulungile ekuqaliseni kwikaka enye esingqongileyo sonke njengabantu abafayo abathi ekugqibeleni banqwenele ukwenza nto.
Ukrwada njengobomi ngokwabo kodwa hayi ngaphandle kobabalo. Kwaye kukuba ukusuka kwi-stoicism ukuya kwi-hedonism kwaye ekugqibeleni i-nihilism, ubulumko obukude behlabathi lethu elivelayo buboniswa namhlanje njengengqikelelo yokoyiswa ukuze siphele sikhanya ngendlela yethu, ngamandla e-will-o'-the. -ubulumko beenkwenkwezi ezidlulayo. UMark Manson akayena uSeneca, ngenxa ye-stoicism, kodwa ekuzikhuseleni kwakhe kunye nokubheja ngokufunda kwakhe sifumana umzamo onzima wokunyuka ukusuka kwi-disenchantment, ukuqaphela impumelelo encinci ekukhuphukeni okungenakwenzeka.
Iincwadi ezi-3 ezicetyiswayo nguMark Manson.
Ubugcisa obufihlakeleyo bokunika i-shit malunga nayo yonke into
Uyabona, ubu-stoicism bukwi-vein kodwa ubunihilism ngokuthe ngqo… Ukungenisa ngaphandle ngokuqinisekileyo kukho izinto ezibalulekileyo. Wonke umntu useta isikali sakhe samaxabiso kwaye aqhubele phambili neziphumo. Nangona kunjalo, njengomntu olahlekileyo emsebenzini ngokudilika komhlaba, amaxesha ngamaxesha kufuneka ukwazi ukuba ungathini: kakuhle, andikhathali, ndiya kuphinda ndizame, yiloo nto ekuthethwa ngayo. Ayingombandela wokucinga into enjalo ukuzinceda ekuzitshabalaliseni kodwa ukucinga ukuba kwakunokuba kubi ngakumbi.
Kwesi sikhokelo sokuzinceda, umthengisi wamazwe ngamazwe ochaza isizukulwana, ibhlogi ebalaseleyo uMark Manson usibonisa ukuba isitshixo sokuba ngokuzithemba ngakumbi, umntu owonwabileyo kukujongana ngcono nobunzima. Esihogweni ngepositivity!
Kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo, uMark Manson usebenze ekulungiseni ulindelo lwethu olukhohlisayo ngathi kunye nehlabathi kwibhlog yakhe edumileyo. Ngoku usinika bonke ubulumko bakhe obungenaloyiko kule ncwadi ibalulekileyo.
UManson usikhumbuza ukuba abantu bayaphazama kwaye balinganiselwe: "Asinakukwazi sonke ukuba singaqhelekanga: kukho abaphumeleleyo kunye nabalahlekileyo kuluntu, kwaye oku akusoloko kulungile okanye lityala lakho." UManson usicebisa ukuba sikuqonde ukusikelwa kwethu umda size sikuvume. Oku, ngokutsho kwakhe, imvelaphi yokwenyani yokuxhotyiswa. Sakuba silwamkele uloyiko lwethu, iimpazamo, nokungaqiniseki, sakuba siyekile ukubaleka kwaye siphephe kwaye siqale ukujongana neenyaniso ezibuhlungu, sinokuqalisa ukufumana inkalipho, ukuzingisa, ukunyaniseka, uxanduva, ukufuna ukwazi, kunye noxolelo esilufunayo.
UManson usinika umzuzu wokunyaniseka okungxamisekileyo, lowo xa umntu ekubamba emagxeni kwaye ekujonga emehlweni ukuze ube nentetho enyanisekileyo, kodwa ezele ngamabali okonwabisayo kunye noburharha obungakhathaliyo. Lo myalelo we-manifesto yimpama ehlaziyayo ebusweni, ukuze siqalise ukuphila ubomi obanelisayo nobunesiseko.
Intando (Ukuzinceda kunye nokuphucula)
Ngamanye amaxesha impama ngexesha ixabisa ngaphezu kweeseshoni ezininzi zonyango. Tshela u-Will Smith emva kokusebenza kwakhe kwe-stellar kwi-Oscars 2022. Kungenxa yoko le ncwadi ithatha inkangeleko eyahlukileyo ukusuka kweso sihlandlo se-epic ebusweni boburharha obungenamda. Ukuba ukhululekile ukukhubekisa ngesiseko soburharha, ndikhululekile ukukukhathaza ngesiseko sembeko. Isiqingatha phakathi kukaManson kunye noWill Smith ngokwakhe, le ncwadi isintywilisela kwimeko yempumelelo ngaphezu kwayo yonke imiba engaphaya kolunye uhlobo oludumileyo lwempumelelo.
Enye yezona zinto zinamandla kwaye ziyamkelwa kwihlabathi lokuzonwabisa lisibonisa ubomi bakhe kwincwadi enesibindi kunye nekhuthazayo apho impumelelo, ulonwabo lwangaphakathi kunye noxhulumaniso lwabantu zidityanisiwe. UWill ubalisa ibali lomnye wemisebenzi engaqhelekanga kumculo nakwifilimu.
UWill Smith, umntwana ongakhuselekanga owakhulela eWest Philadelphia eqinile, waba ngowokuqala weyona nkwenkwezi inkulu yerap ngexesha lakhe waze emva koko waba yenye yezona nkwenkwezi zinkulu zaseHollywood kulo lonke ixesha, ngokulandelelana kweengoma ze-ofisi zebhokisi. iphazamisekile. Libali elibalulekileyo lenguquko yangaphakathi kunye noloyiso lwangaphandle; ibali elibalisa ngendlela engaqhelekanga. Ukanti, eso sisiqingatha kuphela sebali.
UWill Smith wacinga, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo, ukuba uphumelele ilotho yobomi: yayingeyompumelelo yakhe kuphela eyayingenakulinganiswa nanto, kodwa usapho lwakhe luphela lwalumi kwincopho yehlabathi lolonwabo. Nangona kunjalo, abazange babone ngaloo ndlela: babevakalelwa njengabadlali abaphambili besekisi kaWill, umsebenzi owawuhlala iintsuku ezisixhenxe ngeveki kwaye, ngaphezu koko, abazange bafake isicelo. Imfundo kaWill Smith yayisandul’ ukuqalisa.
Ezi nkumbulo ziyimveliso yohambo lokuzihlola olunzulu olusijongayo kungekuphela nje ngako konke esinokukuphumeza ngamandla, kodwa nako konke esinokukushiya ngasemva ngenxa yeso sizathu kanye. Ibhalwe ngoncedo lukaMark Manson, umbhali weyona nto ithengiswa kakhulu Ubugcisa obufihlakeleyo bokunika iShit (phantse yonke into), ethengise izigidi zeekopi kwihlabathi liphela, iWill libali lomntu omnye okwazileyo ukuthatha iintambo iimvakalelo zabo kwaye ibhalwe ukuze wonke umntu oyifundayo enze okufanayo.
Bambalwa kuthi abayakuze babe noxinzelelo lokudlala kuwona manqanaba makhulu ehlabathi nokuba sengozini enkulu, kodwa sonke sinokuqonda ukuba kusenokufuneka siyitshintshe into eye yasiqhubela ekubeni sigqibezele inqanaba ebomini ukuba sifuna ukufikelela. inqaku. Ukudityaniswa kobulumko bokwenyani, obuxabisekileyo kwihlabathi kunye nebali lobomi elonwabisayo, ukuba alimangalisi, phantse alikholeleki, libeka iWill kudidi olulodwa, njengombhali wayo.
Yonke into iNgxaki: Incwadi emalunga neThemba (Ayiyonyani)
Siphila kwixesha elinomdla kakhulu. Kwinkalo yezinto eziphathekayo, lo ngowona mzuzu ungcono kakhulu esiye sahlala kuwo njengoluntu, sikhululekile kunanini ngaphambili, sinempilo kwaye sicebile kunaliphi na ixesha kwimbali yoluntu. Kodwa ngandlel' ithile yonke into ibonakala ngathi itshatyalalisiwe ngokungenakulungiseka: ukufudumala kwehlabathi, oorhulumente bahlala bengalunganga, uqoqosho luyawohloka, kwaye wonke umntu uyakhubeka kwi-Twitter. Ngeli xesha embalini, xa sifikelela kubuchwepheshe, imfundo kunye nonxibelelwano ababengenako nokuphupha ookhokho bethu, uninzi lwethu luziva lungenathemba.
Kwenzekani? Ukuba nabani na unokubeka igama kwi-malaise yethu kwaye ancede ukuyilungisa, nguMark Manson.
UManson ushicilele Ubugcisa obufihlakeleyo bokunika iF * ck (Phantse yonke into), incwadi apho wachaza khona izizathu ezibangela ukuba sihlale sixhalabile kule mihla yobomi. Yasibonisa ukuba ubugcisa buye basinceda ukuba sizixhalabise ngezinto eziphosakeleyo, ukuba inkcubeko yethu yayiseyisela ekubeni ihlabathi lisityala okuthile xa lingenalo, yaye okubi ngakumbi, ukuthanda okuphambanayo kwanamhlanje kokusoloko sifumana ulonwabo.
Izinto ezisenza singonwabi ngokwenene. Endaweni yoko, “ubugcisa obuchuliweyo” belo gama bajika balucelomngeni olukhaliphileyo: olo lokukhetha umlo wakho; ukunciphisa kwaye ugxininise intlungu ofuna ukuyinyamezela. Isiphumo yaba yincwadi eyaba yinto yamazwe ngamazwe, eneekopi ezingaphezu kwezigidi ezithandathu ezithengisiweyo kwihlabathi jikelele kunye nenombolo 1 kuluhlu oluthengiswa kakhulu kumazwe angaphezu kweshumi elinesithathu.
Ngoku, kuyo yonke into iF * cked, uManson uphonononga kwiziphene esinazo njengabantu kwiintlekele ezingapheliyo ezenzeka kwihlabathi liphela. Ethatha kuphando lwengqondo kule miba, kunye nobulumko obungenaxesha befilosofi abafana noPlato, uNietzsche noTom Waits, uManosn uhlolisisa inkolo kunye nezopolitiko kunye neendlela ezahlukeneyo abaye bazibonakalisa ngazo. Jonga kubudlelwane bethu nemali, ukuzonwabisa kunye ne-Intanethi, kunye nendlela esizixakekisa ngayo de sidliwe ngokwasengqondweni siphila. Icela umngeni ngokuphandle kwiinkcazelo zethu zokholo, ulonwabo kunye nenkululeko kunye nethemba.
Ngomxube wakhe wesiqhelo we-erudition kunye noburharha obungalindelekanga, uManson usibambe emqaleni kwaye ucela umngeni kuthi ukuba sinyaniseke ngakumbi kuthi ukuze sinxibelelane nehlabathi ngeendlela ebesingakhange siziqwalasele ngaphambili.
Ngomnye umdlalo onomdla ofuna ukuqonda intlungu ezintliziyweni zethu kunye noxinzelelo lomphefumlo wethu. Omnye wababhali ababalaseleyo bale mihla uye wavelisa enye incwadi eya kusebenza njengokhokelo kwiminyaka ezayo.
