Ngamanye amaxesha ndibukela unyana wam oneminyaka emine ubudala kwaye ndifumana umbuzo oqhelekileyo wezona zibini zifuna ukwazi, kuphela ngendlela ebonakalisayo: Ucinga ntoni? Kwaye inyani yile yokuba, ukuzibeka ezicathulweni zakhe, kubenzima ukuba abantu abadala bacinge ukuba babuyele kulaa minyaka yokucinga kunye nokuhlanya, ndigqibela ndiziphendula: Nantoni na, uya kuba ecinga nantoni na.
Kule "nantoni na" ophambili kweli bali ungena ngokupheleleyo. UMnu P ibhere, umhlobo omkhulu ongabonakaliyo u-Arthur wamngenisa endlwini yakhe ngenye imini ukuze angaze ahlukane naye. Ukuba uArthur wayengumntwana wokwenene, ngekhe kubekhona ukuthandabuza ukuba ngenye imini uyokohlulwa kuMnumzana P, kwaye mhlawumbi kwiminyaka kamva engakwazi ukumbona kwindlwana yakhe yokugcina izilwanyana.
Kodwa into elungileyo malunga neencwadi kukuba abalinganiswa bahlala bekhona, bexhasa imbali yabo ngamehlo abo nabaphi na abafundi, nkqu nakulo mfundi ufundayo.
Kwimeko yoku ncwadi Utyelelo olungalindelekanga lukaMnuUkudibana noArthur omncinci, omphefumlo wakhe uvuleke kuphela kunye nomhlobo wakhe omtsha ophazamisayo, kuyonwabisa kakhulu ukuba umntwana, umntwana ofikisayo okanye umfundi omdala ahambe nesifundo.
UArthur uhlala ngala mzuzu apho i-ego iqala ukuzibonakalisa ngobundlongondlongo emzimbeni wakhe, impendulo engangesiqingatha se-neuronal kunye nesiqingatha sehomoni. Inkqubo eqheleke kakhulu yabancinci abaqala ukukhangela indawo yakho. Ngubani kude kube ngalamzuzu wayenokuba liqabane lomphefumlo, umntakwabo uLiam uba lulo "tshaba" lincinci bahlala bephikisana nalo minutiae yokutsala ingqalelo yabazali babo. Kulapho uArthur evakalelwa kukuba ukungaqondani okuqhelekileyo kwabantwana abaphelayo ngokuthe ngcembe.
Sisiphi esona sisombululo singcono kunokuzisa umhlobo oyintelekelelo emhlabeni? Kutheni kungekho ibhere? Ukugqibelela, kunjalo. Ibhere elimhlophe, elikhulu kakhulu, elinamandla, elikwaziyo ukwabelana ngobubi kunye nexesha elinomdla lokufumanisa, umhlobo onokuthetha naye kwaye wonwabe naye.
Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, le yincwadi efanelekileyo kwabo bantwana abathi, kancinci kancinci, bayeke ukuba njalo. Ngokuchanekileyo kuloo nto iya kukhula okanye kuloo inertia yexesha uyonwabele elona xesha libalaseleyo, eliyilayo nelinomdla ebuntwaneni.
Ungayithenga incwadi Utyelelo olungalindelekanga lukaMnuInoveli entsha kaMaría Farrer, apha: