Dziko lapansi ndi limodzi, koma zoona zake n’zambiri. Malinga ngati zenizeni ndi subjective zikuchokera munthu. Mfundo ingakhale kuyang'ana ndi kuchotsa zabwino kwambiri pazochitika zilizonse, kupanga zomwe mphamvu zathu zimatipatsa. Ndiko komwe chithandizo cha Gestalt chimapita ngati njira ina yothandizira. kudzithandiza. Ndipo kuchokera pamenepo amatha kupitilira kumadera osiyanasiyana okhalira limodzi anthu. Chifukwa pakati pamawonedwe ambiri pazowoneka ngati zachilendo zimakhala zachilendo kuti mikangano ibwere.
Mwamuna amadziwa zambiri za zonsezi. Joan Garriga yemwe amatipangitsa ife kufika m'mabuku ake modus operandi kuti tikumane ndi mavuto m'malo am'banja kapena munjira ina yayikulu kwambiri yomwe mwanjira inayake imayang'anira gulu lathu lamkati. Chifukwa njira iliyonse yakusinthira iyenera kuchokera mkati ndi kunja. Chifukwa pakusintha komwe kumatanthauzira zenizeni, osati mayankho, timapatsidwa njira zina ndi malonda. Chisankho chabwino, chisankho, ndi malingaliro zimachokera pakulingalira kwamkati.
Mabuku atatu apamwamba opangidwa ndi Joan Garriga
Chikondi chabwino mu banjali
Chikondi choyenerera ndi chofunikira kuti tisasokonezedwe ndi matanthauzidwe ambiri okhudza zomwe zimafotokoza mawu. Mosasamala kanthu za magawo achikondi kapena zochitika zomwe zimalimbitsa kapena kufooketsa, kuwonetsa njira zosayembekezereka kwambiri, chikondi chabwino ndichakuti, chomwe chimakhazikitsa mgwirizano wauzimu ngakhale chili chonse.
Ili si bukhu lonena zoyenera kuchita kapena zosayenera kuchita muubwenzi. Silankhula za mitundu yabwino. Imakamba za maubwenzi osiyanasiyana, ndi malangizo ake ndi masitayilo oyenda. Komanso pazinthu zomwe nthawi zambiri zimapangitsa kuti zinthu ziziyenda bwino kapena kusokonekera mwa awiriwo, komanso zosakaniza zomwe zimathandizira kapena kulepheretsa kumanga ubale wabwino ndikusunga. Kuphatikiza apo, imapereka zidziwitso kuti aliyense athe kupeza njira zawo, mtundu wawo komanso moyo wawo ngati banja.
Joan Garriga, katswiri wa zamaganizo wa Gestalt komanso katswiri wa magulu a nyenyezi a mabanja, katswiri wodziwa zachipatala yemwe wawona maanja ambiri akubwera kudzera muzokambirana zake, akuwonetseratu kuti mu maubwenzi mulibe chabwino kapena choipa, olakwa kapena osalakwa, olungama kapena ochimwa. "Zomwe zilipo ndi maubwenzi abwino ndi oipa: maubwenzi omwe amatilemeretsa ndi maubwenzi omwe amatipatsa umphawi. Pali chisangalalo ndi masautso. Pali chikondi chabwino ndi chikondi choipa. Ndipo chikondi sichimakwanira kuti mukhale ndi moyo wabwino: chikondi chabwino chimafunika.
Nenani inde pamoyo
Kuganiza za chisangalalo ngati ulusi womwe umatitsogolera paulendo wokoma kudzera pakukhalapo ndizosamveka ngati wopanda ntchito komanso wokhumudwitsa. Chilichonse chimakhalapo ndi zotsutsana, komanso chisangalalo chomwe chimafuna chisoni kuti mutenge zomwe zilipo ndi zomwe zingakhale.
Tikudziwa kuti sitingakhale achimwemwe nthawi zonse, ndipo ngakhale tikudziwa izi, timamva kuti sitingathe kukumana ndi zowawa ndi zowawa zikawonekera popanda chenjezo. Koma chowonadi ndichakuti nthawi zokoma za moyo sizikanachitika mwamphamvu ngati masiku owawa kwambiri kulibe. Ngati tavutika ndichifukwa choti timatha kukonda, koma maubale amadziwika ndi kutayika, kusakhulupirika ndi mikangano; zovuta zomwe zimatikuta komanso zomwe nthawi zina zimatipangitsa kuti tilephere kusandutsa mabala athu kukhala mwayi wokula.
M'buku loyembekezerali, Joan Garriga amatipatsa zaka zopitilira makumi atatu zokumana nazo komanso chidziwitso chake kuti tidziwe kupsinjika kovuta monga kuzunzika ndikutiphunzitsa, ngati kuti tidakhala gawo lazachipatala komanso kudzera muzitsanzo zenizeni, kuti tizindikire, tilandire ndikusintha kukhala mphamvu yomwe imatilola kuthana ndi zovuta.
Ndalama zija zili kuti? Makiyi amgwirizano wopezedwa pakati pa ana ndi makolo
Confucius amatiphunzitsa kale kuti ndi iye yekha yemwe amadziwa kusangalala ndi chilichonse yemwe angakhale wosangalala nthawi zonse. Pamzerewu, pothawa kungosintha pang'ono ndikusiya ntchito zabodza, tazindikira kuti mawu achinsinsi omwe amatsegula zitseko zakukwaniritsidwa kwawo amapangidwa ndi silabo yosavuta: INDE. INDE. Ku moyo, monga momwe ziliri. Kwa ife momwe ife tiriri. Kwa ena, monga momwe alili. Kwa makolo athu, monga momwe aliri komanso momwe analiri, magalimoto opatsa chidwi a kukhalapo kwathu ndi zina zambiri.
Uwu ndi uthenga womwe a Joan Garriga Bacardà akuwulula m'bukuli, ngati ndakatulo momwe zimathandizira kusinkhasinkha ndikusintha, pankhani yofunikira yomwe ikudetsa nkhawa tonsefe: njira yodziwira komwe tidachokera, cholowa chathu chabanja ndikupeza malo athu padziko lapansi . Lembali limakondwerera moyo osasokoneza pazowona zake komanso zosasunthika, kuchoka pamaganizidwe abwino.
Kodi ndalama zili kuti? Limapereka malingaliro atsopano a moyo, ponse paŵiri kwa awo amene akuvutika polingalira za makolo awo ndi kwa awo amene amatero moyamikira. Limalankhula chinenero cha chiyanjanitso ndi mtendere. Zimasonyeza mphamvu ya chikondi ndi njira yophatikizira ndikugonjetsa mabala omwe amalepheretsa kudzaza kwa moyo wa munthu.
