Kwenye yezincwadi zakhe ezinhle kakhulu, U-Elsa punset wethula ubunzima obubhekise enjabulweni esihlokweni esivele siveza okuningi okuyindida endleleni eya kulelo banga lokwaneliseka okukhulu: injabulo indlela yakho. Ayikho injabulo engenzeka ngaphandle kokwamukela lokho ongaphezu kwalokho onakho noma ongenakho.
Futhi lowo ngumqondo we-neuralgic ozungeze wonke umsebenzi ka-Elsa. Izincwadi ezinama-Essay, ngaphezu kokuzisiza ngokusobala. Imibono engaphezu kwezilandiso ezingenakuphikiswa.
Isazi sefilosofi ngobizo nokuqeqeshwa, kanye nothando futhi oqeqeshwe emculweni njengomdlali wepiyano, u-Elsa udlulisa lowo muzwa wokulawula, wokubekezela ngobuyena ukuthi kulezi zinsuku ufuna izimpendulo ezisheshayo zayo yonke into.
Izincwadi zakhe zingamagugu amancane omcabango wansuku zonke, ifilosofi yezwe, cishe amafilosofi adlula kakhulu kumuntu siqu.
Izincwadi ezinconyiwe ezi-3 zika-Elsa Punset
Ikhampasi yabashayeli bezikebhe ngokomzwelo
Lesi sithombe simane nje siyakhazimula, njenge-aphorism elula esimema ukuba sifunde sifuna leyo khampasi yangaphakathi ehamba neNyakatho icindezelekile kithina sonke. Imvamisa siyakholelwa, kungaphezu kwalokho esidinga ukukukholwa, ukuthi ubuhlakani bethu, ukucabanga kwethu kusikhombisa iqiniso lomhlaba.
Okwenzeka ngempela ukuthi sifihla imizwa. Uma kunikezwe lobu bufakazi, ukuqala ukufunda le ncwadi kungaba ukutholwa okuhle. Incwadi yokuqala ka-Elsa, ngokubona kwami, ihamba phambili. Singadweba umbono wethu ngomhlaba, siwuhlanganise futhi ekugcineni siwuchaze ngencwadi enhle, ezohlala ingeyokuqala.
Isifingqo: Ekujuleni okungokwemvelo kokuba kwethu singacabangi, ngiyaxolisa. Sakhiwe imizwa. Phakathi namakhulu eminyaka siye salwela ukuwathambisa, ukuwavalela ezimisweni zokuphila ezihlelekile nezicindezelayo. Ebhekene nezinqumo zakhe, okuwukuphela kwento ayengayenza kwakuwukwesula noma ukuvukela.
Njengamanje siphila emhlabeni osisinda ngezilingo nezinqumo eziningi futhi kufanele sinqume sodwa, ngaphandle kwezinkomba ezicacile, ukuthi singobani nokuthi kungani kufanele siphile silwele. Le nkululeko entsha ifuna ukutholwa kwekhampasi, okungukuthi, yamakhono namathuluzi asivumela ukuthi sihambe ngobuhlakani obungokomzwelo ngemigudu engalindelekile yezimpilo zethu.
Le ncwadi ihlanganisa izigaba ezahlukene zokukhula komuntu ngokomzwelo nezenhlalo, hhayi nje njengomuntu oyedwa, kodwa futhi ngokuphathelene nabantu abakha indawo yethu: abazali, izingane, abalingani, ozakwethu, abangani ...
Ukungena ngekhulu lama-XNUMX, imizwa, ngenxa yeminyango evulwe yi-neuroscience, ingabhalwa, iqondwe futhi iphathwe: ziyisihluthulelo sesikhungo sethu sezinzwa, kungaba ubuchopho, umphefumulo, unembeza noma inkululeko yokuzikhethela. Ukuzazi kusivumela ukuthi sithole imithombo yenjabulo yethu, intukuthelo yethu nobuhlungu bethu ukuze siphile ngokuvumelana nangokugcwele nathi kanye nabanye.
Ubhaka wendawo yonke
Ngalesi sihloko kufana nobaba wakhe U-Eduardo Punset, U-Elsa ungena kulowo mkhakha ongapheli wemizwelo nokubonakaliswa kwawo okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuxhumana nabanye, ukuxhumana nemvelo, ukulungiswa phakathi kwalokho esizwayo nalokho esikubonisayo.
Isifinyezo: Ukugona kufanele kuthathe isikhathi esingakanani? Kusiza ngani ukukhala? Yini esingayenza ukuze siguqule inhlanhla yethu? Ingabe ukungena othandweni kunenhloso? Futhi kungani ubuhlungu benhliziyo bungenakugwenywa? Sikufunda kanjani ukwesaba? Siqala ukuqamba amanga sineminyaka emingaki? Kungani siba nomona? Bangaki abangane esibadingayo ukuze sijabule? Ingabe singakugwema ukucindezeleka ngokungadingekile? Kungani indoda inendaba ngaphezu kowesifazane uma imoto yakhe iklwebhekile? Futhi, ngaphezu kwezinkulungwane zokudla okuyisimangaliso, ingabe akhona amaqhinga angokomzwelo okwehlisa isisindo?
U-Elsa Punset uphendula le mibuzo kanye neminye eminingi, eyedlulele kanye neyansuku zonke, kule ncwadi, ecatshangelwe "njengomhlahlandlela omncane wemizila ehlukahlukene" ehamba phakathi nendawo yemizwa yomuntu ngenjongo yokwenza kube lula ngathi ukuqonda ukuthi yini esizungezile, qaphela.ukubaluleka kobudlelwane bethu nabanye, thola ukuthi kuningi okusihlanganisayo kunalokho okusihlukanisayo, thola izindlela eziphumelelayo zokuxhumana, ukuphatha ubuhlobo phakathi komzimba nengqondo, ukuthuthukisa ukugeleza kwenjabulo esikuqukethe, ukuzihlela ukuze sifinyelele isethi futhi sifinyelele imigomo yethu futhi sisize ubuchopho bomuntu bumelane nokuthambekela kwabo okungokwemvelo "kokusinda ngokwesabekayo nokungathembani."
Ngoba, njengoba u-Elsa Punset ekhomba ngamazwi asobala nalula, ukuguqula izimpilo zethu kanye nobudlelwano bethu “asikudingi njengoba sicabanga: ubhaka olula ulingana nalokho okusisiza ukuba siqonde futhi silawule iqiniso elisizungezile.” Okubalulekile okusizungezile. isiqondiso sokuqonda abanye futhi uzulazule ngempumelelo endaweni yonke yemizwa.
Uyajabula (injabulo indlela yakho)
Siqeda isikhundla ngencwadi yakhe yakamuva. Isiphakamiso esibhekisisa konke lokhu okungenhla, sigxile kuphela kumphumela wokugcina wokwazi ukuthi singaziphatha kanjani, wokuhumusha imvelo, wokukwazi ukuzwelana ... nenjabulo yokuphila.
Indaba efingqiwe: Kusobala. Akuthathi kangako ukujabula. Futhi ukwenza ukushanela komlando kuqinisekisa kuphela leli qiniso. Ngabe ikhona enye imiphakathi eyadlula kule planethi ingajabuli kangako?
Injabulo yinto eqondakalayo engashintshwa ngokuphelele kulokho okukhona. Futhi ngokunembile, okukhona manje kukhungathekisa okuningi, kwamaphupho angenakufinyelelwa, wezithombe zobumba, izinkomba zokuziphatha nezenhlalo ezingenalutho, zokukhohlisa okukhangisa enjabulweni yezinto ezibonakalayo.
Yebo, cishe asijabule ukwedlula noma iyiphi impucuko eyadlula kulo mhlaba. Kulapho le ncwadi entsha ethi Delves: Happy: Happiness Your Way, ka-Elsa Punset. Akukhona ukuthi ngizifela kakhulu ngezincwadi zokuzisiza, kodwa angicabangi ukuthi nalena ayiyona. Kunalokho kuwuhambo oluya esikhathini esidlule, kulokho kuhlakanipha okunamathele kakhulu ezweni kanye nezimo zabantu ngamunye, umbono oqhelelene kakhulu nalomhlaba wokuxhumana, ukushesha kanye nezinkomba ezikhubazekile.
Ukwazi ukuthi okhokho bethu abakude bangajabula kanjani kungamangaza futhi kusikhanyisele mayelana nokudideka esihamba kukho. Abachazi abakhulu besikhathi ngasinye somlando basinika ubufakazi mayelana nalolo cwaningo lwenjabulo, oluhlala lunzima kodwa olungahlali luhlanekezelwe njengamanje.
Uma uzivumela ukunethezeka kokuthatha lolu hambo, uzongena ngamanani amakhulu eqiniso mayelana nenjabulo engabonakali, leyo ekhona nokuhlala ngokulingana nemvelo, leyo yokuphefumula naleyo yokufuna inhlanhla yakho phakathi kokubonelelwa, okuyi thola lapho ukwazi ukukhululeka kancane kunokuba kungenzeka njengamanje.
