Ubani ongakaze aphile indaba yothando enqatshelwe? Ngisho noma kungenxa yokuthi lonke uthando luhlala luhlangana nohlobo oluthile lokungavunyelwa ngisho nangomona nje. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi kancane kancane kwenzeka ukuthi lokho okunqatshelwe kunqunyelwe inkululeko yobulili, ngokwemvelo. Kodwa kukhona njalo ama-taboos akhiwe njengama-totems okuziphatha.
Into exakayo ukuthi, ngokuphambene nalokho okufunwa yinoma yiluphi uhlobo lokuvinjelwa, ukukhawulelwa noma ukungavunyelwa okukhulunywe ngakho ngenhla, uthando olubhekene nezitha zombono wabanye, luyaqina, luphile ngamandla, lugcine selujabulela kakhudlwana phambi kwezingqondo eziboshiwe. ngamaphethini alokho okufanele.
Yingakho le ndaba ka umlobi u-Ana Merino, eholwa yingqwele kaValeria yothando olungahloniphiyo, yothando phambi kwayo yonke into, yamabhithi ashubile afurtive nemizwelo emisiwe emifuleni engalindelekile yesiphetho, uhlala egcina ngokusiwina ngalokho angazi ukuthi yini ngokulangazelela okungenakwenzeka. noma silahlekelwe yithuba okungenzeka sibe nalo noma ebesingathanda ukuba nalo...
UValeria, uthisha osemncane wesikole onobuhlobo obuyimfihlo noTom oneminyaka engamashumi amathathu ubudala, ubhekene nenkinga yemizwa futhi ufuna ukuqonda incazelo yothando.
Edolobheni afundisa kulo, uLilian unyamalala ngaphandle kwesizathu ngesikhathi umyeni wakhe ekolunye uhlangothi lwezwe. UGreg, indoda eshonelwe abesifazane, uvakashela iklabhu eseduze yokwamukela izivakashi ukuze axoshe ukunganeliseki kwakhe, kuze kube ngolunye usuku etholwa ngendlela embi kakhulu.
Kusukela ezikhathini ezinjengalezi ekudluleni komphakathi omncane wasemaphandleni, sihlola izimfihlakalo zansuku zonke zezakhamuzi zakhona. Izimpilo zabo bonke ngeke zidlule nje kuphela eminyakeni engaphezu kwamashumi amabili, kodwa futhi zizohlelwa amandla kazibuthe othando, ukuvela kwenhlanhla noma ubulungiswa benkondlo ngezinye izikhathi izehlakalo ezingalindelekile ezisilethela zona.
Imephu yezothando ilandela umkhondo wabantu abakha izindaba ezifihliwe zezindawo; izindawo lapho ukungabikho, kuqubuka izenzakalo ezingavamile, lapho kwenzeka khona ubugebengu obungachazeki, lapho ukungezwani komuntu siqu kanye nomndeni kuhlangene futhi lapho kuphela umgomo wokuhle ulungisa isisekelo esidingekayo sokuqhubeka nokuphila.
Manje usungathenga inoveli ethi "Imephu yezothando", incwadi ka-Ana Merino, lapha: