Kuthiwani uma ukwelashwa kwemibhangqwana eminingi, imithamo emikhulu yokuqina, amathani wokubekezela nokuqonda okuncane ... Yilokho okuhlala kudluliselwa kithi lapho kuhlelwa ubudlelwano njengezithandani.
Kepha cishe wonke umuntu, ohlakaniphe kakhulu 😛, sazi kahle kamhlophe ukuthi iqiniso liya kwezinye izindlela. Ukuthi imibono yenzelwe izimo zethiyori kanye nokwenza kungaphansi kwemiyalo yomoya, imizwa kanye nentando yokugcina uthando.
URabih noKristen nguwe kanye nomlingani wakho. Iminyaka idlulile futhi iqiniso lokuthi awukwazi ukuthola okhiye lapho ubashiye khona kungaholela emzuzwini omusha wokuphikisana nomuntu ohlala nawe futhi akusekele (ngasikhathi sinye ukuthi umeseka). URabih noKristen bathola amakota amathathu ento efanayo. Uthando lwakhe luhlushwa ukukhathala okungapheli, ukukhathala okuzibonakalisa kuleso sikhala lapho ukuhlangana kuhlangana khona namasiko, ama-manias, ukuthambekela kanye nentando.
Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, ngenxa yalokho kuqashelwa okuncane kokuncane, nsuku zonke, kuyathakazelisa kakhulu ukuzibandakanya kule ndaba kaRabih noKristen, engazenzi incwadi yokuzisiza, kepha kunalokho isibuko lapho ungakwazi khona bona leyo mininingwane emincane engenangqondo ongadala kuyo izingxabano ezingenalutho. Kepha futhi kungenzeka ukuthi uveze isidingo esithile salokho kushaqeka okuncane, ukuze kuthi ngelinye ilanga elihle kuvele ukukhanya, ukuze ukukhanya kothando olungasoze kwaba njengosuku lokuqala kukhanyise isimo esizolile sosofa, izingalo kanye ithelevishini.
Kuzoba khona abafuna ukukhipha inhloso yokufundiswa, ngamasu okuvimba izikhathi zempikiswano. Ngibona nje incazelo ecacile neqondile yalokho esiyikho. Okuwukuphela kweqhinga lakho konke ukuxoxisana, futhi lapho wonke umuntu kufanele asethe amaphuzu akhe okuqala.
Ngoba inkhulumomphendvulwano, ngaphezu kwalokho, ingahlala iholele ekungaqondisisini ngoba ukucabanga kwethu akuyona into ehamba phambili ngaso sonke isikhathi. URabih noKristen bayazihlekisa ngezinye izikhathi ezingxoxweni zabo, yize kubonakala ngokuphelele. Umbhangqwana ozogcina usenza simomotheke futhi ozosimema, okungenani, ukuthatha izinto ngephuzu lokuphumula, ukusebenzisa ifilosofi yasekhaya ehlelelwe indlela yethu yokuba, ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka.
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