Kusukela ngifunda odumile Incwadi ka-Allen Carr yokuyeka ukubhema, ukukholelwa kwami ​​ngokuba lusizo kwezincwadi zokuzisiza kushintshe kakhulu kwaba ngcono.
Kumane nje kuyindaba yokuthola leyo ncwadi enikela ngokuthi i-noséqué yesiphakamiso phakathi kwenqwaba yezimpikiswano ifike kusuka esibonelweni noma isingathekiso, kusuka ku-casuistry yangempela noma endleleni esondele eminganisweni. Ukufunda nakho kuyindlela enhle yokuphatha lawo maphuzu abuthakathaka, kulawo mazimo lapho sidinga ukwesekwa khona ukuze sibuye namandla amakhulu emhlabeni wethu.
Lapha ungathola okuhle umtapo wezincwadi zokuzisiza, isikhungo esihle sezinkomba lapho ungathola khona ukuthi lowo mklomelo wenza ukufunda kube mnandi, kufundise, kube yisibonelo futhi kukhuthaze. Futhi-ke, akukaze kube buhlungu ukwazi ukuthi ungaya kuphi ukuqala uhambo olubheke ekuzuzeni okungcono kakhulu ekuqineni noma ekucabangeni kabusha.
Uma futhi ungathola izincwadi zokuzisiza ezinconywe izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo Akungabazeki ukuthi le mibhalo yokwenza ngcono isebenza ize ifike emazingeni okusebenza kahle okuphezulu. Baningi ababhali abasinikeza imisebenzi ehlanganisa izici eziningi lapho singaphakamisa khona ukuthuthuka kusuka kulokho kufunda okufinyelela kulowo mngcele phakathi kokuzihlola kanye nendlela yokubhekana nempilo yethu.
Izimpaphe ziqondiswe ngokusobala ezinganekwaneni ezifana nalezi ze Paulo Coelho, nohlangothi lwayo olungokomoya noma UJorge Bucay, udokotela osevele wahlonishwa emhlabeni wonke ngendlela yakhe yokuthulula endabeni, inganekwane noma inganekwane lonke ulwazi lwakhe oluqoqwe eminyakeni edlule.
Kukhona ngisho nalabo abaphakamisa izindlela zokuthola injabulo kusuka ekuhlelweni nasekuhlelweni, ngohlobo lokufana phakathi kwento nezinto ezingokomzwelo. Marie Kondo Ungumkhulu omusha wokuzisiza ovuse intshisekelo enkulu endleleni yakhe yokukhomba ebhalansi njengokufana phakathi kwendawo yethu yomzimba nokuvumelana nezikhala zethu zangaphakathi.
ESpain isikhashana manje, isaga sePunset, ubaba nendodakazi, nabo babhekene nalolu hlobo lwendaba elusikiselayo nolushukumisayo. Esivele sanyamalala U-Eduard Punset ngendlela yakhe yokudlula ngokwesayensi nendodakazi yakhe U-Elsa punset, umlandeli ofanele osika izindlela zenjabulo ngendlela eqonde kakhulu namuhla.
Kuyizibonelo nje, ucwaningo lokuqala oludlulela ekucatshangweni okuningi nokuthi uma befika njalo ezikhundleni ezikhethekile ezitolo ezidayisa izincwadi emhlabeni wonke, kungenxa yokuthi bayabaluleka ngendima abayidlalayo kithi.
Njengoba ngishilo, kuningi ongakhetha kukho nezici eziningi okufanele ubhekane nazo ukubheka lokhu kuzenzela okwenziwe izincwadi njengezindlela ezinhle zokubhekana nezici zokwenza ngcono. Akukho okungcono kunokuba, ngokufunda, kuvuse ukungenelela kwesici esinengqondo kunazo zonke kuleso sizinda lapho singathola khona ukuhlakanipha okungokomzwelo, ukuqina, ukulawula kanye nesigwedlo esingashukumisa ukunyakaza okufiswa kakhulu.
El umqondo obalulekile, ngombono wami, okuthethelela lokhu kuvela okukhulu kwezincwadi zokuzisiza yiyona ukunqoba. Ngoba okungcono kakhulu esingakwenza ukuhlala sizedlula thina, ngaphandle kokwesaba noma imingcele ebekiwe ngaphambili kusuka ekwesabeni okuhlala kufuna ukuqina futhi okwazi ukusikhawulela.
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