Kunezikhathi lapho le ndoda eyayizungezwe izilima kube yilowo nalowo kithi. Lezi yizikhathi lapho, ekugcineni, sithola ukuthi sishayela emgwaqeni onguthelawayeka lapho yithi kuphela esingalungile. Futhi ngokunengqondo imiphumela ingaba ukuthi sizigxivize ..., sithatha esinye isingathekiso esithambile, esingenakuqonda.
Kodwa isizathu yilokho onakho. Isizathu sethu siwumvikeli omkhulu wazo zonke izimbangela zethu, kusukela kokungajwayelekile kakhulu kuya kwesenhloso enkulu.
Futhi lapha sifinyelela umnyombo wendaba. Akubona bonke abayiziphukuphuku njengoba bebonakala, futhi iphuzu lokuzishaya ngesiswebhu sicabangela ukuthi kufanele kube yithi esibonisa ubulukhuni bethu obungapheli.
Lokho uThomas Erikson asiphakamisela kona kule ncwadi ubuhlobo esibusungula phakathi kwe-SUBJECTIVITY - REALITY - OBJECTIVITY, konke lokhu okubhekene nokuxhumana kanye nendlela yokuxhumana. Ukukhanya kwesibonelo, ngobuningi bezibonelo ezethulwe kithi kule ncwadi kuzosisiza ukuthi sibuyekeze izenzo zethu ezimbi lapho sikhuluma kanye nokubona izenzo ezimbi ngaphandle komthumeli wemiyalezo esinayo phambi kwakhe (ukuqonda kusuka unkosikazi noma izingane kumphathi wakho, edlula kumphathi-hhovisi efasiteleni 4 ozama ukuqonda ukuthi yini oyichazayo)
Ukulungisa izici ezihlukahlukene zokuxhumana, ikakhulukazi inkhulumomphendvulwano, kungasisiza ukuthi sikhiphe futhi samukele zonke izinhlobo zemilayezo. Ukukhumbula ukuthi iqiniso liyisamba sezinto ezinqunyelwe ukukwazi ukuzibophezela komunye nomunye, kuzosisiza kulokho okuhle kokuzwelana, ukuqonda nokudlulisa ngendlela engcono kakhulu konke esifuna ukukwazisa ngakho.
Futhi-ke ukukhanya kungase kwenziwe ekugcineni, futhi zonke lezo ziphukuphuku zizobe sezinyamalele embonweni wakho ohlanekezelwe weqiniso. Ngoba vele, umuntu ohlakaniphe njengawe awukwazi ukuchitha impilo yakhe yonke ezama ukukuqonda ngezilima, ngoba uzogcina ungomunye wabo ... 🙂
Ungathenga incwadi Indoda eyayizungezwe izilima, okwakamuva okuvela ku-Thomas Erikson, lapha: