Izincwadi ezi-3 ezihamba phambili zikaWayne Dyer

Ku izincwadi zokuzisiza, Wayne Dyer was the benchmark par excellence waze wasishiya ngo-2015. Ngoba kamuva sathola ababhali abanjengo Unogwaja o IBucay ukudlala ngothando njengothando njengomzekeliso walokho kuzisiza. Ngenkathi uDyer ebhalela abafundi efuna ukukhanya kwakhe kwangaphakathi kusukela ngama-70s ngendlela eqonde ngqo, kuze kube seqophelweni eliphakathi nendawo phakathi kwenhliziyo nengqondo, ngaphandle kokungaqondakali.

Akekho ongcono kunomfana onjengoDyer, omiswe njengosindile esimweni esijwayelekile sesiphepho sentandane, ukusabalalisa futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke ukuthola umyalezo wokuphindisela njengento engenziwa kunoma ngubani owaziyo ukuthola umsuka wezinkinga zabo.

«Izindawo zakho ezimbi»Ngabe lokho kuthengiswa okuphazamisayo kohlobo olusaqhubeka nokuhlolwa kulinde ukuqhuma okulandelayo okuhambisana nokuqeqeshwa, izindlela zokwelapha ezahlukahlukene kanye nezici ezishukumisayo njengesikhala sokuhlola emsebenzini noma nasekhaya (njengoba siqaphela Marie Kondo).

Kamuva kwavela ezinye izincwadi eziningi ezivela ku-Dyer owayevele enguchwepheshe wezengqondo owaziwayo kodwa futhi egxile ekufundeni okusha mayelana nokulinganisela okuvela ku-yoga nokuhlakanipha kwasempumalanga. Ngakho ungathola njalo incwadi kaDyer, phakathi kwenqwaba ayishicilele, ehlangabezana nalokho okulindele lapho ubhekene nomsebenzi wokuzisiza.

Izincwadi Ezinconyelwe ezi-3 eziphezulu nguWayne Dyer

Izindawo zakho ezimbi

Kanye ne-Allen Carr's Quit Smoking Book, le volumu iba incwadi ethengiswa kakhulu ohlotsheni lokuzisiza. Ukuyeka ukubhema kwakuhlobene kakhulu nokusondela kukho njengombono wenkululeko, wenjabulo. Kwenzeka okufanayo ngokuphuma, ngokushiywa kwezindawo zethu ezingalungile. Konke kuyisinqumo sezempilo.Isimo sempilo yisimo semvelo, futhi izindlela zokusifinyelela zingaphakathi kwamathuba omuntu ngamunye.

Ngabe unomuzwa wokucindezelwa ubukhona? Ukukhubazeka ngokuzibophezela - okusebenzayo, ukusebenza ... - akusakunelisi? Kubuswa yicala noma ukungazethembi izakhiwo? Ungakhombisi ukungagculiseki kwakho kwabanye: imbangela ikuwe, "ezindaweni ezingalungile" zobuntu bakho ezikuvimbayo nezikuvimbela ekuzigcwaliseni.

Kulo msebenzi, uDkt. Wayne W. Dyer ukhombisa ukuthi bakuphi, basho ukuthini, bahola kuphi, nokuthi singakunqoba kanjani. Ibeka indlela eya enjabulweni, inqubo egxile ekubeni nesibopho nokuzibophezela kuwe. Futhi konke kubhekwe kubuhle kanye nobulula balabo abaziyo ukuthi bangabambisana ekwenzeni ngcono izimpilo zabanye.

Izindawo zakho zemilingo

Konke kungabhekwa kusuka kumbono omuhle. Lapho wazi ukuthi ungazibona kanjani izikhundla zakho ezingalungile, kufanele usebenzise ngokunenzuzo okusele ngawo wonke umzuzu, ezinye izindawo zemilingo ezikwazi ukukuphakamisela emandleni we-umpteenth wakho.

Ku-Wayne, ukuphelela akuwona umzamo omkhulu size sifinyelele inguqulo yethu ehamba phambili. Yonke into iphathwa ngendlela elula kakhulu, imvume yokuvumela lokho esiyikho ukuthi kugeleze kusibeka emqondweni wawo wonke amandla ethu, okufinyeleleka kithi ngentshisekelo yethu ephelele.

Ingabe likhona iqiniso elibambekayo kuphela, leli esilibona ngezinzwa zethu? Angeke yini kube khona iqiniso "elingaphansi", elingathuthukisiwe kubantu abaningi, kodwa elingabanika amandla angenamkhawulo okuphila impilo yabo ngokugcwele?

UWayne W. Dyer uthi yebo. Iqinisekisa ubukhona beqiniso lomlingo kulowo nalowo, icebo elinamandla elingokomoya elilindele ukutholakala ukuthi lisetshenziswe njengenhloso eyodwa engenzeka: ukufeza okuhle kakhulu ngokwakho nakwabanye.

Amandla omoya

Uma usukholisekile ukuthi yonke into ingakusebenzela kangcono kusuka ekugxileni okuhambisanayo nokubona ukubaluleka nokuzethemba, ungahlala ungene ekujuleni kokuphakathi kwengqondo nezingokomoya zikaDyer owayehlala ehlola izindlela ezintsha.

Yonke into emkhathini ingamandla. Futhi amandla, esimweni sawo esiphezulu - lapho amaza okudlidliza kuwo eshesha - umoya.

Uma amandla emazingeni awo aphansi kakhulu futhi amaningi ezinto ezibonakalayo eyimbangela yezinkinga, amaza angokomoya aphezulu ayisixazululo sawo: uma ukwazi ukuwafinyelela, okufinyeleleka kuwo wonke umuntu, uzobe uqonda ukuthi umoya yiwo okwenza ube yingxenye. yengqikithi yaphezulu, ukuthi lesi isiphetho sakho nokuthi izinkinga azilutho ngaphandle kwemibono edalwe ingqondo yakho.

Amandla omoya Akugcini nje ukukuqinisekisa ngesidingo sokuzitholela isiqu sakho sangempela ngomoya, ukuze uphile ngokuvumelana nenjabulo; ichaza nezinyathelo okufanele zithathwe ukufeza lokhu: ukuqashelwa, ukubona, nokuhlonipha.