Amaqhina obuzalwana asebenza njengendawo yokuqala ekubhekiswa kuyo kumoya ophikisanayo womntu. Uthando lomntakwenu kungekudala ludityaniswe neengxabano malunga nesazisi kunye ne-egos. Ewe, ekuhambeni kwexesha, ukukhangelwa kwesazisi kuphelela ekudibaneni phakathi kwabo babelana ngemvelaphi ethe ngqo yemfuza kunye nekhaya eliqhelekileyo de babe badala.
Iimfihlelo zolu lwalamano lobuqu phakathi kwezilwanyana ezanyisayo zebele elifanayo zivula indlela yeyelenqe eliphakathi kokwenyani kunye nentsomi, eliboniswe kuthi kule ncwadi iDuelo, ngumbhali waseLatin America. UEduardo Halfon.
Kucacile ukuba, ngesi sihloko, sijamelene nentlekele yelahleko encwadini, kodwa usizi aluphelelanga apho ekunyamalaleni komntu esabelana naye iminyaka emininzi kangaka ekukhuleni. Intlungu inokuqondwa njengokulahleka kwesithuba, isivumelwano ngenxa yomzalwana osandula ukufika. Ukwabelana ngothando, iithoyi ekwabelwana ngazo,
Mhlawumbi le ncwadi yenye yeyokuqala ukujongana nomba wobuzalwana ngobunzulu obukhulu. Ukusuka kuKayin no-Abheli kuye nakowuphi na umzalwana osandula ukufika kweli hlabathi. Ukusuka kubantakwenu abasoloko behambelana kakuhle nabo bathanjisiwe yimbambano engazange yoyiswe kwaye iphelise uthando oluphantsi kolu lwalamano lomntu.
Eyona nto iphikisayo kuyo yonke into kukuba, ekugqibeleni, omnye umzalwana ubumba ukuba ngubani omnye. Ukulinganisela phakathi kobushushu kunye nobuntu kufezekisa impembelelo yomlingo wembuyekezo. Izinto ezihlawulelwayo zinokuthwala ngokulula ubunzima kunye nokuqhubela phambili phakathi kwelo bhalansi lingazinzanga lihleliyo. Ngesi sizathu, xa umzalwana elahlekile, usizi lucinga ukuphulukana nesiqu sakhe, sobobukho benziwe imbuyekezo, phakathi kweenkumbulo zekhaya, lemfundo, yokufunda ngokudibeneyo.
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