Kukho iiyantlukwano phakathi kwabanye abazali nabantwana abacinga ukuba kukho amathambeka angenakufikeleleka apho uthando lubonakala ngathi luwa, okanye ngokuchaseneyo, olungenakufikeleleka ekunyukeni kwalo. Eyona nto imbi kakhulu kukufumana ummandla ophakathi, ngaphandle kokwazi ukuba uyehla okanye unyuka, unomngcipheko wokuwa ngamaxesha onke, ubandezeleka ngenxa yokungafani kokuziphatha kunye nesizukulwana.
Awona maxhoba makhulu, ekugqibeleni, ngokuqhelekileyo ngabantwana. Kwaye ndicinga ukuba kunjalo noMarco. Kwiminyaka yakhe yobudala, uMarco akakwazi ukudibanisa kunye nexesha lakhe elidlulileyo, kunye nelo nqanaba kwintsapho elilangazelela ukuba lidlule ngokuhlukileyo. Kuphela umzuzwana omncinane kuvela njengehlumelo lethemba. Kwakukho umzuzwana wonxibelelwano phakathi kwakhe noyise, ngexesha lohambo, ekude kakhulu kwinkumbulo njengoko mhlawumbi ephazanyiswe yinkumbulo kunye nexesha eliye laphela ukohlwaya uMarco kakhulu.
Kodwa uMarco kufuneka azakhe kwakhona, azakhe ngokutsha ngothsuphe lwempumelelo, eengcambu kwinto awayeyiyo. Ukuziva unetyala ngenxa yesini iphelela ingxaki Freudian kunye neziphumo ebezingalindelekanga, kwaye ufuna ukuba akasayi babandezeleka ukuba isohlwayo, ukuba ityala internalized ngenxa yokungaqondi uyise.
UMarco ugqiba ekubeni akhulule umfundi, ebonisa ukuba indawo apho umntu adlula ebuntwaneni ukuya ebudaleni, kunye nazo zonke iingxabano eziqhelekileyo zokuphuma kwishumi elivisayo, ziphindaphindwe kwimeko yakhe ngokufunyanwa okuphawulweyo kobuntu bakhe, into eyinyani ngaphandle kokuhambelana nosapho. ingcamango.
UMarco wayengathanda ukucinga ukuba unokuze amwole uyise ecela ukuxolelwa. Kwaye uyise wayemqinisekisile ukuba akukho nto inokuxolela. Kodwa akuzange kwenzeke ngolo hlobo, kwaye uMarco wagqiba ekubeni atshintshe phakathi kwesondo sakhe esakhulayo kunye nokwenzakala kwakhe. Kwaye umfundi ufumanisa yonke into, ngokuqina okufanayo ngokungathi ifakwe phantsi kwesikhumba somlinganiswa.
Kwimbonakalo yelizwe laseChile eliguqukayo, kunye neenkcukacha zezinye zezo ntlekele zendalo ezibhengezwa sihloko sencwadi, sifumana isafobe esicebisayo phakathi kwehlabathi eliye liqhekeke ngamanye amaxesha, eliye linikezele kwiinyikima ezivela emhlabeni kwaye ukusuka kwiimvakalelo.
Ungayithenga inoveli ngoku Iintlekele zendalo, nguPablo Simonetti, apha: