Ukuhlala kunye kusoloko kulinge. Ukuhlalisana phakathi kwabo bake bathandana kusoloko kuhamba ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zomjikelo ongalindelekanga.
Ukuza ukubona iqabane lakho njengomntu ongamaziyo asinto ingaqhelekanga (uxolele ukubhomba). Okona kulungileyo komntu wokuqala othandweni ubeka bucala iziphene zakhe, mhlawumbi nobungendawo bakhe, kwaye unikezela ngeyona nto ilungileyo. Ukusebenza komzimba kuhlala ixesha elide. Yonke into iceba ukuze inyaniso iguqulwe, ibe ngcono okanye imbi, kodwa ingaze igcine imvakalelo yayo yokuqala.
Ukuguqulwa kothando, ukuguqulwa komlingo okanye okubuhlungu (kuxhomekeke kwindlela ojonga ngayo) yinkqubo yeemvakalelo ephunyuka kuyo nayiphi na isayensi okanye ukuqikelelwa kwangaphambili.
Kwaye ukusuka apho le ncwadi iqala, imalunga nokwenza isayensi yothando, empiricism. Finyelela kulwazi lomda wokugqibela ngaphaya kothando.
UMary, inkosikazi embindini wendlela edibanayo, uthatha isigqibo sokufumana umsebenzi okhethekileyo phantsi kweambrela entsonkothileyo "yeLingelo lentombi". UMary uthatha indima yakhe njengentombi ethandanayo eneemvakalelo, ebuyekezwa ngabanye abafazi ababelwe iindima ezihambelanayo.
Elinye icala lobudlelwane nguKurt, umdlali ojikelezayo okhangela iimpendulo kwiintsilelo zakhe. UMary noKurt bayayibetha, mhlawumbi bobabini bekhuselekile kwi-latency yabo yothando kuyo nayiphi na imbonakalo. Ide igqibele ngokubonakala phakathi kwezi zimbini.
UMary kunye namanye amantombazana, kunye noKurt, banokusondela ekujongeni uthando, utshintsho kunye nelahleko yalo ebuhlungu.
Kwaye baya kufumanisa ama-nuances othando avela kwinoveli entywiliselwe phakathi kweemvakalelo eziphikisanayo zolo hlobo lovavanyo, oluguqulelwe ekubeni ngamava e-hyperrealistic okanye anjengephupha.
Iimpendulo kulo mbandela? Mhlawumbi azizininzi njengoko besilindele okanye mhlawumbi zonke zilungiselelwe umfundi okwaziyo ukufunda phakathi kwemigca, ekwaziyo ukucacisa iisimboli kunye novelwano, ukulinganisa iinkqubo ezifunyanwa nguMary okanye uKurt.
Imbono yabasetyhini kulo mba nayo iyinto ephawulekayo. Ngaba uthando lubonakala ngokwahlukileyo kumadoda nabasetyhini ngenxa yeemeko zangaphandle?
Ulwazi ngomnye kunye nesiqu sakho ngexesha lokuthandana kunokuba ngundoqo. Ukufumanisa into esiyiyo ekuqaleni komdlalo wothando akuyi kuthintela ukudlula kwenkanuko, kodwa kunokuthintela amaphupha obuxoki okanye amathemba amadala.
Kwaye uburharha, sikwafumana uburharha bokunxunguphala kwethu ngokweemvakalelo njengoko sichanabeke kumahla ndinyuka ngokweemvakalelo.
Inoveli epheleleyo emalunga nothando yasondela ngaphaya kohlobo lothando ukufikelela kwindawo ekhoyo. Kuba ngokwenene ukuphila ngaphandle kothando akunakwenzeka ngokupheleleyo.
Ungayithenga inoveli ngoku Iimpendulo, Incwadi entsha kaCatherine Lacey, apha: