Ukukhathala kothando, ngu-Alain de Botton

Ukudinwa kothando
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Kuthekani ukuba uninzi lwezibini zonyango, iidosi ezinkulu zokuqinisekisa, iitoni zomonde kunye nengqondo encinci ... Yiloo nto ehlala ihanjiswa kuthi xa kucwangciswa ubudlelwane njengesibini.

Kodwa phantse wonke umntu, abona bakrelekrele 😛, sazi kakuhle ukuba inyani iya kwelinye icala. Ithiyori yeemeko zethiyori kunye nokuziqhelanisa kuxhomekeke kwisimo sobushushu, iimoods kunye nomnqweno wokugcina uthando.

URabih noKristen nguwe kunye neqabane lakho. Iminyaka ihambile kwaye inyani yokungazifumani izitshixo apho ubashiye khona ingakhokelela kumzuzu omtsha wokudibana nomntu ohlala nawe kwaye akuxhase (kwangaxeshanye umxhasa). URabih noKristen bafumana ikota ezintathu zento enye. Uthando lwakhe lunengxaki yokudinwa okungapheliyo, ukudinwa okuzibonakalisa kuloo ndawo apho ukuhlala kunye kunxibelelene namasiko, i-manias, utyekelo kunye nomyolelo.

Ngesi sizathu, ngenxa yokwamkelwa okuyinyani kwincinci, kwimihla ngemihla, kunomdla kakhulu ukuzibandakanya kweli bali likaRabih noKristen, elingazenzi ngathi liyincwadi yokuzinceda, kodwa sisipili apho unakho bona ezo nkcukacha zincinci zibubudenge onokuthi uvelise ukungavisisani okungenanto. Kodwa kuyenzeka ukuba ubonise imfuno ethile yezi zothuko zincinci, ukuze kuthi ngenye imini ukukhanya kuvele, ukuze ukukhanya kothando olungasokuze kufane nosuku lokuqala kuya kukhanyisa imeko ezolileyo yesofa, iingalo kunye umabonwakude.

Kuya kubakho abo bafuna ukukhupha injongo yokuziqhelanisa, namaqhinga okunqanda amaxesha engxabano. Ndibona nje inkcazo ecacileyo nengqalileyo yento esiyiyo. Icebo ekuphela kwento yonke kukuthetha-thethana, kwaye apho wonke umntu kufuneka abeke amanqaku abo okuqala.

Kuba ingxoxo, ngapha koko, inokuhlala ikhokelela kukungaqondani kuba imeko yethu ayisoloko ilungile. URabih noKristen bahlekisa ngamanye amaxesha kwiingxoxo zabo, nangona bebonakala ngokupheleleyo. Isibini esiya kuthi sigqibe ukusenza sincume kwaye siyakusimema, ubuncinci, ukuba sithathe izinto ngenqaku lokuphumla, sisebenzise ifilosofi yasekhaya ehlengahlengiswe nendlela yethu yokuba, ngaphandle kokuqhubeka.

Ungayithenga incwadi ukudinwa kothandoNgu-Alain de Botton, umbhali waseSwitzerland:

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