Ukusukela UGqirha Ochoa yavela kwiscreen kwi-90s yokuqala, i isini kunye nesini saqala ukuhamba kunye ngeendlela eziyimfuneko zokubhengeza okuthandwa kakhulu. Umcimbi wesini uthathe ubungakanani bendawo yencoko kunye nophando (njengayo yonke into evela kumabonwakude). Into yayiyinto entle kakhulu ukuyeka ukuba yinto engacacanga njengokuphazanyiswa iinyanga ezinje ngabaFarisi sisiculo somculi Amakhwenkwe, amakhwenkwe, amakhwenkwe.
Kwaye ke, bahlobo bam, endaweni yesondo eqhubeka nokuba yindawo emnyama ehambelana ne-phobias ezingagxilanga kakuhle, ingqondo ephazamisayo, i-pseudo-erotic tricks kunye nombono we-esoteric kwabo bangatyi umsila, kuba, isini saba sisihloko esivulekileyo yengxoxo-mpikiswano. Njenganamhlanje kunokuba njalo ukuba i-spherifications kunye ne-nitrogen zihamba kakuhle nge-omelette yeetapile ukongeza kwi-anyanisi, (enkosi, MasterChef).
Ukwabelana ngesondo kuncwadi nakho kwafumana inkululeko. Kungenxa yokuba inye into Uncwadi oluthandayo okanye ababhali bathanda UMarquis de Sade ekungekhe kubekho nto intsha, kwaye yenye into ukusondela kwisondo njengento yokufunda kwiincwadi ezenza isayensi ngayo.
Namhlanje sifumana iincwadi zesini ngomsebenzi wokufundisa ngakumbi, wokuzonwabisa okanye wokuziphindezela kwimisinga emitsha enjenge-polyamory okanye i-sologamia (ethi yona kwindawo yezesondo ihlale ingaphezulu kwenkawu, kodwa yiza, kukho into eyenziweyo ...)
Apha ndiza kuqokelela ezo zibonakala zinomdla kum. Siqala ngolu hlobo lwe-5 olunokuthi lube nengxaki kwixa elizayo ...
Umfazi ombi. Uguquko oluya kukukhulula, nguNoemi Casquet
Alithandabuzeki elokuba uguquko kwezesondo olufuna ngokuchanekileyo ukuba, ukubeka isondo kwindawo engundoqo yobudlelwane boluntu, kufuna umfazi owakhiwe ngokulingana okupheleleyo namadoda. Kuyahenda ukucinga ukuba le sele ikhona. Kodwa inyani ihlala iyothusa ibonisa imizila yayo eyaphukileyo ...
Ukwamkelwa okucacileyo kokubi kuyayikhulula ukujongana ngqo nalowo ubeka ilebhile ethathwe ekuziphatheni kwendalo.
Umfazi ombi uyaqonda ukuba kungenxa yesazela sombukeli osemsebenzini kwaye kwikratshi lakhe ubonakalisa ukungabikho kwengqwalaselo kuloo ndlela yokuxinana kunye nokuxinana. Ingxaki kukuba ii-corsets zokuziphatha zisabhalwa kakhulu ukuba zinokuzifihla okwangoku. Akukho nkululeko inkulu kunaleyo yenziwe kwezona ndawo zisenyongweni. Akukho nto ityebisa ngakumbi umphefumlo kunye nomphefumlo njengokonwaba ngesondo esingokobuthixo kunye nenyama.
Emva kokubona iakhawunti yakhe ihlolwe yi-Instagram kwaye ilizwi lakhe lithulisiwe amatyeli aliqela, uNoemí Casquet uphehlelela umyalezo wakhe onamandla ngale ncwadi: “Kuzo zonke izinto endinokuzikhetha, ndikhethe ukukhululeka. Uhambo endilwenzileyo ngaphakathi yayingamava kunye namava okufunda kum. Oko, kuxubene neminyaka yophando kwicandelo lezesondo njengentatheli, kundikhokelele ekubeni ndinguye: ndingumfazi ombi. Wamkelekile kulo mnqophiso, dade. Wamkelekile mfazi ombi.
Ukwabelana ngesondo kwaDummies nguRuth Westheimer
Xa uyi-rookie, nokuba ukholelwa kangakanani, ugqibela ngokufunda ukuba ayisiyiyo yonke into obucinga ukuba uyazi ukuba iyinyani, ngakumbi kwindawo enje ngesondo apho umbono wezulu komnye unokuba sisihogo somnye ukuba unxibelelwano oluyimfuneko ngaphaya ingxelo ebalulekileyo yokunika kwaye uthathe ...
Ukwabelana ngesondo yinxalenye yendalo yobomi babantu, kodwa kwiinkulungwane kuye kwagutyungelwa ziintsomi zobuxoki kunye neetaboos. Ugqirha Ruth Westheimer uqhekeza kula maphepha, ucalucalulo kunye nobuxoki kwaye unikezela ngamava akhe abanzi njengengcali yokwabelana ngesondo ukunika umfundi izitshixo zokufumana ulonwabo oluphezulu kubudlelwane bomzimba. Kuyo uya kufumana yonke into oyaziyo ngesondo kwi-XNUMXst century.
Kutheni isini simnandi? NguJared Diamond
Akukhe kube buhlungu ukusondela kumntu odumileyo onjengoJared Diamond ukuba athathele ingqalelo isini njengento yokuqala yeanthropological. Incwadi eyenziwe ngohlobo lwe-vademecum yenyani yesini.
Kutheni le nto abantu bengabanye beentlobo ezimbalwa ezenza ezesondo ngasese? Kwaye kutheni besabelana ngesondo nangaluphi na usuku enyangeni nonyaka? Kutheni le nto abantu ababhinqileyo ikukuphela kwezilwanyana ezanyisayo eziya exesheni? Kutheni ipenisi yendoda inkulu ngokungeyomfuneko?
Le kunye neminye imibuzo ebalulekileyo ifumana impendulo yabo ngenkangeleko yokuba uJared Diamond uphosa ubomi bezesondo bomntu, obahlukileyo kuzo zonke iintlobo zezilwanyana.
Unjingalwazi we-physiology, i-ornithology kunye nejografi, kwaye ophumelele amabhaso ePulitzer, iDiamond inoqeqesho olukhethekileyo kunye namandla emfundo okufaka le mibuzo. Ukwabelana ngesondo kwabantu bekungumxholo wesifundo kumashumi ambalwa eminyaka, kwaye ayizibolekisi kuvavanyo lwaselebhu. Nangona kunjalo, iDayimani iyakwazi ukusebenzisa ulwazi lwayo lwenzululwazi kunye nokuhlekisa kwayo kwizinto ezithandekayo zokuzivelela kwezinto ezakha ubume bethu bezesondo, kwaye ibonisa ukuba banegalelo elingakanani kwimeko ekhethekileyo yokuba ngabantu.
I-Vagina Book, ebhalwe nguNina Brochmann
Mhlawumbi akukho ntsomi inkulu kulo mhlaba kunayo yonke into echaphazela ilungu lobufazi: amabala e-G, i-orgasms yakho, i-clitoris yakho. Ubuni obusetyhini zezo zinto zingaziwayo kodwa zicingelwa ngakumbi kwihlabathi lamadoda. Kwaye, ngokusuka kokubonwa kule ncwadi, inokuthi ibonise izinto ezimangalisayo kwabo bangabanini bayo abadidekileyo abazama ukwenza lo msebenzi wokuzifumanisa.
Ndingathanda ukuyenza icace into yokuba ufuna ukubona ngaphambi kokuba aqalise naluphi na unyango lonyango ngesini ngalo mbandela, kungcono ushiye esi sithuba. Ukuba umbhali uthetha ngokungafihlisiyo malunga nepussy, ungalindeli ukuba ndiza kubethabethana, ngendlela efanayo ukuba ndiphonononge incwadi malunga nepenisi kunye namaqabane ayo amabini ...
I-physiology ye-vagina iyahluka kwaye intsonkothile, iihomoni zisebenza kuyo kwaye ngayo, yintoni kwezinye iinkulungwane ezinokuthi zigqitywe njengoko "ukuhlekisa" komzimba kukhululwe. Akunakuba nayiphi na enye indlela yokuba ubulili besi sixhobo bunokwahluka kwezinto kunye nezinto ezinokwenzeka. Isihloko seenkwenkwezi, njengoko kungenakuba ngenye indlela xa uthetha nge-pussy, yi-clitoris. Ukuba ucinga ukuba ungoochwephesha ngokupheleleyo balo mzimba mncinci unenyama (ngokwenkcazo, ayisiyonto yam), yiya kwabo bayicacisayo kula maphepha ...
Kodwa uNina ukwasixelela ngokuchaphazeleka kweli lungu kusulelo oluqhelekileyo lokwabelana ngesondo kunye nendlela ekuchaphazela ngayo ukwaziswa ngokuthe ngqo kwezinto ezahlukeneyo zocwangciso ... Ngokucacileyo nangokuvulekileyo, hamba.
Amayeza, izifundo, amava, ulwazi olupheleleyo lubaliswa ngendlela emnandi nelula. Kwaye nangona isini sifumana ubunzima obuthile, ayisiyiyo eyona ncwadi iphambili. Ukwazi ubufazi kudlula kule ntetho yesini. Ke ngoko, kukacetyiswa ngakumbi ngolwazi olungcono kwizinto ezenziwayo (kwaye zivezwe ngendlela emnandi kakhulu) yendlela ebaluleke kakhulu okanye i-vulva, ubuncwane bobomi beentlobo zethu ...
ISexperimentado, nguNayara Malnero
Enye yeencwadi zokufundisa ezinomdla ngexesha lokuqala kuhambo lokuqalisa lobomi bonke. Kunconyelwe abantu abancinci ukuba bahlangane kunye nokwabelana ngesondo ...
Ukulalana ngesondo yincwadi yakho. Umsebenzi osombulula onke amathandabuzo akho malunga nokwabelana ngesondo ngendlela elula nesebenzayo. Kwaye mhlawumbi unewaka kunye nemibuzo malunga nokuba yeyiphi into enokwabelana ngesondo ngayo ukuba ungabinobuganga bokubuza abazali bakho okanye abahlobo bakho.
Ukuba eli lixesha lakho lokuqala, unokuziva ungakhuselekanga okanye uve amarhe akongameleyo. UNayara uyakuphendula ngaphandle kokuthabathela ecaleni, ngokuthe ngqo. Ngayo uya kufumanisa umzimba wakho kunye nenkwenkwe okanye intombazana oyithandayo, kwaye iya kukukhokela, ngaphandle kwengcaciso ezingafunekiyo, ukuze amava akho ezesondo (okanye awakho) abe mnandi kwaye akhuseleke. Iya kukunika imikhondo yokukunceda uqonde ngcono ukuba kwenzeka ntoni emzimbeni wakho nakwiimvakalelo zakho, kunye nendlela yokuchaza, umzekelo, kubazali bakho okanye kubahlobo. Musa ukucinga kabini kwaye uzame!
