Ndizowona kuti, mukakhala pansi ndi anawo kuti muwawerengere nkhani, mutha kumangokhalira kusangalala ngati kamwana. Iyenera kukhala mkhalidwe woyenera kuti iwo agwirizane ndi mbali yanu akuyang'ana ndi chidwi chokomacho. Ngati nkhaniyi ndi yokongola mokwanira, ntchitoyi ndiyosavuta komanso yopindulitsa.
Mu mabuku amakono a ana pali mfundo pakati pa wolakwira ndi kukonzanso yomwe nthawi zina malo olakwika ndipo mwa ena ndiko kupezeka kwabwino. Izi ndizomwe zimachitika ndi "Mimbulu yomwe idabwera kudzadya", nkhani yayikulu momwe zithunzi ndi zolemba zake ndizoyenera bwino kuti athe kuwerengera ana azaka 4 mpaka 6 ngakhale iwo kuti alumphiremo. Kuwerenga masewera olimbikitsidwa ndi mafanizo omveka bwino, kudutsa pazithunzi zoseketsa zomwe zimafotokoza zamatsenga patsamba lililonse la 32.
Wogulitsa woyamba wa izi «Nkhosa zazing'ono zomwe zimabwera kudzadya»Zikunena za kulingalira kwamakedzana amakono omwe cholinga chawo chowunikiranso mitu yazowopsa zomwe zili mwa ana ngati njira yowapezera kutali ndi zoopsa kapena kungowaletsa kuti asayandikire zomwe sizikusangalatsa kwa ife.
Ndizowona kuti mzimu wofufuza wa ana athu uyenera kuwongoleredwa nthawi zonse. Koma mantha si njira yabwino yoperekera kukula kwanu. Ndi chinthu chimodzi kuti Little Red Riding Hood kuzindikira nkhandwe yomwe ili ngati agogo ndipo ina kuti nthawi zonse iziyang'ana poopa zovuta zilizonse zomwe zili patsogolo pake.
Chifukwa chake, timabwerera kuubwenzi wapadera womwe unabadwa pakati pa nkhosa yotayika koyambirira ndi nkhandwe yanjala. Mmbulu wowopsa koma wakale yemwe akumaliza kuzindikira kuti pali china chake chofunikira kwambiri kuposa njala, ubwenzi.
Mu gawo lachiwirili timasinthira chithunzi chosokoneza pakati pa nkhosa ndi nkhandwe ndikupanga abwenzi kuti nyama zonse zamtchire ziwonetse kusokonezeka kwawo koyambirira, kufunitsitsa kwawo kupewa kuti nkhaniyi itha molakwika ndikupeza kwawo kuti zinthu sizili choncho nthawi zonse Aphunzitsanso za mantha owopsa pamaso pa anthu osadziwika.
Chifukwa kulowetsa nkhandwe imodzi pagulu la abwenzi sikungakhale kovuta. Momwemonso nkhandwe sizimamveka nthawi zonse ndi mtundu wake, ikukhalira malovu ndikupezeka kwa nkhosa.
Pokhapokha ngati abwenzi odabwitsawo athe kuwonetsa zabwino za mgwirizano wawo, anzawo ndi ena amatha kumvetsetsa kuti sizingatheke (kuyambira pachiyambi) kumvetsetsa pakati pa omwe akuti adadyedwa ndi omwe akuti ndi omwe adachitiridwa nkhanza sangathe kudziteteza.
Mutha kugula nkhaniyo Mimbulu Yomwe Idabwera Kudya, Buku la Steve Smallman, apa: