Mu izo za kudzithandiza timapeza gurus kuchokera ku maphunziro apamwamba kwambiri mu psychology, psychiatry, sociology kapena chirichonse. Koma ndiye kuti pambuyo pake timawonjezera alangizi apamwamba kuchokera kuzomwe takumana nazo kaya mwa kulimba mtima, mzimu wokonda kuchita zinthu kapena kupambana kwakukulu pagawo lofananira. Ndipo n’chakuti anthu amafunikira chilimbikitso chachikulu kuti tsiku ndi tsiku apeze zabwino koposa.
Ndiyeno pali wina ngati Mark Manson. Ndipo mwina chizindikiro chatsopanochi chodzithandizira ndichoyenera kuyambira pa zoyipa zomwe zimatizinga tonsefe monga anthu omwe amangolakalaka chabe.
Wankhanza ngati moyo wokha koma wopanda chisomo. Ndipo ndikuti kuchokera ku stoicism kupita ku hedonism ndipo ngakhale pamapeto pake nihilism, nzeru zakutali za dziko lathu lomwe likubwera likuperekedwa lero ngati lingaliro la kugonjetsedwa kuti tithe kuwala mwa njira yathu, ndi mphamvu ya will-o'-the. -nzeru ya nyenyezi yofulumira. Mark Manson si Seneca, chifukwa cha stoicism, koma mu chitetezo chake ndi kubetcherana pa kuwerenga kwake timapeza kuyesera koopsa kukwera kuchokera ku kukhumudwa, kuti tidziwe zopambana zazing'ono pakukwera kosatheka.
Mabuku 3 apamwamba omwe adalimbikitsidwa ndi Mark Manson.
Luso losawoneka bwino lopereka zoyipa pafupifupi chilichonse
Mukuona, stoicism in the vein koma molunjika ndihilism… Kuitanitsa kunja ndithudi pali zinthu zofunika. Aliyense amakhazikitsa milingo yake ndikupita patsogolo ndi zotsatira zake. Komabe, monga wotayika wabwino pa ntchito ndi kuwonongeka kwa nthaka, nthawi ndi nthawi muyenera kudziwa momwe munganene: chabwino, sindikusamala, ndiyeseranso, ndizo zonse. Si nkhani yongoganizira zinthu ngati zimenezo kudzithandiza kudziwononga koma kuganiza kuti zikadakhala zoyipa.
Mu bukhuli lodzithandiza nokha, wogulitsa kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi yemwe akufotokoza za m'badwo, wolemba mabulogu wamkulu Mark Manson akutiwonetsa kuti chinsinsi chokhala munthu wodzidalira kwambiri, wosangalala ndikuthana ndi zovuta. Ku gehena ndi positivity!
Kwa zaka zingapo zapitazi, Mark Manson wakhala akugwira ntchito yokonza zoyembekezera zathu zachinyengo za ife eni ndi dziko lonse pa blog yake yotchuka. Tsopano watipatsa nzeru zake zonse zopanda mantha m’buku losachita mantha ili.
Manson akutikumbutsa kuti anthu ndi olephera komanso operewera: "tonse sitingakhale odabwitsa: pali opambana ndi otayika pakati pa anthu, ndipo izi siziri zolungama nthawi zonse kapena ndi vuto lanu." Manson amatilangiza kuzindikira zofooka zathu ndi kuvomereza. Izi ndi, malinga ndi iye, chiyambi chenicheni cha mphamvu. Tikangovomereza mantha athu, zolakwa zathu, ndi kusatsimikizika kwathu, tikasiya kuthamanga ndi kupeŵa ndikuyamba kukumana ndi choonadi chowawa, tikhoza kuyamba kupeza kulimba mtima, kupirira, kuona mtima, udindo, chidwi, ndi chikhululukiro zomwe timafuna.
Manson amatipatsa mphindi yowona mtima mwachangu, yomwe wina akakugwirani pamapewa ndikukuyang'anani m'maso kuti mulankhule moona mtima, koma zodzaza ndi nkhani zosangalatsa komanso nthabwala zotukwana, zopanda chifundo. Manifesto iyi ndi mbama yotsitsimula pankhope, kuti tithe kuyamba kukhala ndi moyo wokhutitsidwa komanso wokhazikika.
Will (Kudzithandiza ndi kukonza)
Nthawi zina kumenya mbama pakapita nthawi kumakhala kofunikira kuposa magawo angapo a chithandizo. Uzani Will Smith atatha kuchita bwino kwambiri pa Oscars 2022. Ndicho chifukwa chake bukuli limakhala ndi maonekedwe osiyana kwambiri ndi nthawi yodabwitsayi pamaso pa nthabwala zopanda malire. Ngati muli omasuka kukhumudwitsa chifukwa cha nthabwala, ndine womasuka kukuvutitsani pamaziko a ulemu. Pakati pa Manson ndi Will Smith mwiniwake, bukhuli likutiika mumkhalidwe wopambana kuposa zonse zomwe zimapambana kuposa mtundu winanso wotchuka kwambiri.
Chimodzi mwazinthu zotsogola komanso zodziwika bwino mdziko la zosangalatsa zimatiwonetsa moyo wake m'buku lolimba mtima komanso lolimbikitsa pomwe kupambana, chisangalalo chamkati ndi kulumikizana kwamunthu zimaphatikizidwa. Will akufotokoza nkhani ya imodzi mwa ntchito zodabwitsa kwambiri mu nyimbo ndi mafilimu.
Will Smith, mwana wosatetezeka yemwe adakulira ku West Philadelphia molimba, adakhala woyamba kukhala m'modzi mwa akatswiri odziwika bwino kwambiri a rap m'nthawi yake ndipo adakhala m'modzi mwa akatswiri akulu kwambiri aku Hollywood omwe adakhalapo nthawi zonse, ndi nyimbo zingapo zotsatizana. kusokonezedwa. Ndi nkhani ya epic ya kusinthika kwa mkati ndi kupambana kwakunja; nkhani yomwe Will akufotokoza bwino kwambiri. Ndipo komabe, imeneyo ndi theka chabe la nkhani.
Will Smith anaganiza, ndipo moyenerera, kuti adapambana ma lotale a moyo: sikuti kupambana kwake kunali kosayerekezeka, komanso banja lake lonse lidayima pachimake pazachisangalalo. Komabe, iwo sanawone mwanjira imeneyo: iwo ankadzimva ngati otsogolera a Will circus, ntchito yomwe inkawagwira masiku asanu ndi awiri pa sabata ndi kuti, kuwonjezera apo, iwo sanapemphe. Maphunziro a Will Smith anali atangoyamba kumene.
Zokumbukira izi ndizomwe zimachitika paulendo wakuzama mozama zomwe zimatiyang'ana osati zonse zomwe titha kuzikwaniritsa kudzera mumphamvu, komanso ndi zonse zomwe tingasiyire pazifukwa zomwezo. Wolembedwa mothandizidwa ndi Mark Manson, mlembi wa zogulitsa kwambiri The Subtle Art of Giving a Shit (pafupifupi chilichonse), zomwe zagulitsa makope mamiliyoni ambiri padziko lonse lapansi, Will ndi nkhani ya munthu m'modzi yemwe wakwanitsa kutenga ziwongola dzanja. maganizo awo ndipo amalembedwa kuti aliyense amene amawerenga achite chimodzimodzi.
Ndi ochepa a ife amene angakumane ndi chitsenderezo cha kuchita pa masiteji aakulu kwambiri padziko lapansi ndi kukhala ndi zambiri zomwe zili pangozi, koma tonsefe tingathe kumvetsa kuti tingafunike kusintha zomwe zatipangitsa kuti tikwaniritse gawo lina m'moyo ngati tikufuna kufika. cholinga. Kuphatikiza kwa nzeru zenizeni, zamtengo wapatali padziko lonse lapansi ndi mbiri ya moyo yomwe ili yosangalatsa kwambiri, ngati si yodabwitsa, pafupifupi yosakhulupirira, imayika Will mu kalasi yakeyake, monga wolemba wake.
Chilichonse Chasokonekera: Buku Lonena za Chiyembekezo (Zongopeka)
Tikukhala m’nthawi yosangalatsa kwambiri. Pazinthu zakuthupi, iyi ndi nthawi yabwino kwambiri yomwe takhalapo monga gulu, ndife omasuka kuposa kale lonse, athanzi komanso olemera kuposa nthawi ina iliyonse m'mbiri ya anthu. Komabe mwanjira ina zonse zikuwoneka kuti zawonongeka kosasinthika: kutentha kwa dziko, maboma akulakwitsa nthawi zonse, chuma chikugwa, ndipo aliyense amakhumudwa nthawi zonse pa Twitter. Panthawi ino m'mbiri, pamene tili ndi mwayi wopeza zipangizo zamakono, maphunziro ndi mauthenga omwe makolo athu sakanatha kulota, ambiri a ife timakhala opanda chiyembekezo.
Chikuchitika ndi chiyani? Ngati wina angayike dzina ku vuto lathu ndikuthandizira kukonza, ndi Mark Manson.
Manson adasindikiza Zojambula Zobisika Zopatsa F * ck (Pafupifupi Chilichonse), buku limene adalongosola zifukwa zomwe zimatipangitsa kukhala ndi nkhawa nthawi zonse m'moyo uno. Inatisonyeza kuti tekinoloje yatithandiza kudera nkhaŵa zinthu zolakwika, kuti chikhalidwe chathu chinatitsimikizira kuti dziko lili ndi ngongole kwa ife pamene silinatero, ndipo choipitsitsa kuposa zonse, kutengeka maganizo kodabwitsa kwamakono kopeza chimwemwe nthaŵi zonse.
Zinthu zomwe zimangopangitsa kuti tisakhale osangalala. M’malo mwake, “luso lochenjera” la mutuwo linakhala chitokoso cholimba mtima: cha kusankha ndewu yanu; kuchepetsa ndi kuyang'ana zowawa zomwe mukufuna kupirira. Zotsatira zake zinali buku lomwe linakhala chodabwitsa padziko lonse lapansi, ndipo makope opitilira sikisi miliyoni adagulitsidwa padziko lonse lapansi komanso nambala 1 pamndandanda wogulitsidwa kwambiri m'maiko opitilira khumi ndi atatu.
Tsopano, mu Chilichonse Ndi F * cked up, Manson akufufuza zolephera zomwe tili nazo monga anthu ku masoka osatha omwe akuchitika padziko lonse lapansi. Kuchokera ku kafukufuku wamaganizo pa nkhanizi, komanso nzeru zosatha za afilosofi monga Plato, Nietzsche ndi Tom Waits, Manosn amafufuza zachipembedzo ndi ndale ndi njira zosiyanasiyana zomwe adziwonetsera okha. Yang'anani maubwenzi athu ndi ndalama, zosangalatsa ndi intaneti, ndi momwe timakhalira mpaka titakhala ndi moyo. Zimatsutsa poyera matanthauzo athu a chikhulupiriro, chisangalalo ndi ufulu ngakhale chiyembekezo.
Ndi kusakaniza kwake kwachizolowezi komanso nthabwala zosayembekezereka, Manson amatigwira pakhosi ndikutikakamiza kuti tikhale oona mtima ndi ife tokha kuti tigwirizane ndi dziko m'njira zomwe mwina sitinaganizirepo kale.
Ndi masewera ena mwachilengedwe omwe amafuna kumvetsetsa zowawa zomwe zili m'mitima yathu komanso kupsinjika kwa moyo wathu. Mmodzi wa olemba amakono amakono watulutsa bukhu lina limene lidzakhala chitsogozo kwa zaka zikubwerazi.