Mutu wa bwenzi lachiwerewere lomwe mungalankhule naye zakusokonekera kwa atsikana limakhala ndi lingaliro latsopanoli. Sizimangokhala zopeputsa kwambiri za kulumikizana komwe kulipo pakati pa atsikana ndi anyamata ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ndikungonena za kuwonetsa zochitika zophatikizika zamtengo wapatali mongaubwenzi, womvetsetsa.
Pali abwenzi ndi abwenzi. Koma bwenzi labwino ndi amene amatha kudzimana kena kake kuti athe kugawana nawo malo enieni aubwenzi, ubwenzi womwe ungakhale nawo munthawi zosasangalatsa kuposa za kupumula kosavuta.
Mwina lingaliro la kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha pa seChifukwa cha zovuta zomwe amakhala nazo nthawi zonse, zimatilimbikitsa kuti timuganizire ngati munthu womvera zomwe akumva komanso wokhoza kupereka mayankho kapena wothandizira.
Mfundo ndi yakuti mu izi bukhu Inu nokha mumandidziwa, David Levithan akutiwonetsa chimodzi mwazomwe zimachitika pomwe mnzakeyo amaganizidwa kuti ndi dzanja lotambasulidwa komanso phewa lomwe amalira zolakwika. Koma kupitilira kuzungulira bwaloli makamaka pamutu wonena zaubwenzi wamtunduwu, wolemba amatipangitsa kuti tiwone kulumikizana pakati pa anthu awiri omwe, ngakhale samakondana, pamalingaliro achikondi, amatha kufunikira wina ndi mnzake ndikubwera palimodzi pamene akutseka kulumikizana kwapaderaku.
Kudziwana bwino ndi munthu wina nkosatheka. Mphindi iliyonse, zochitika zonse zimatha kutulutsa zinthu zomwe sizinachitikepo. Koma mgwirizano pakati pa anthu awiri utha kubweretsa chidziwitso chodabwitsa, ngati kuti chinali chikondi chachikulu.
Mark wangotayidwa ndi mnzake ndipo Katie sakudziwa momwe angathanirane ndi malingaliro ake okhudzana ndi Violet. Zokhumudwitsa ziwiri zimakwaniritsa mgwirizano womwe umayandikira wina ndi mzake mkatikati. A Mark ndi Katie amalankhula kuchokera pansi pamtima ndipo zomwe zidzatuluke munthawi yawo limodzi zidzafika pafupi kwambiri ndi lingaliro latsopano lachikondi, pomwe kusowa kumakhala kosapiririka ngati kuti ndi chikondi cha moyo wanu.
Mutha kugula bukuli Inu nokha mumandidziwa, buku laposachedwa la David levithan, Pano: