Tiyeni tikhale owona. Kuyandikira buku longa ili nthawi zonse kuyenera kukhala zochitika zolimbitsa chidwi. Chowonadi cha kupambana kwakukulu kwa Bill Gates, Lady Gaga, Jessica Alba kapena Steve Wozniak silingaganizidwe ngati njira yomwe ingabwerezedwe mosamala kuti mupeze zotsatira zomwezo. Ndi chinthu chimodzi kulemba buku losangalatsa lokhala ndi chidwi cholimbikitsa monga izi zaposachedwa ndi Pau Gasol ndipo sichachilendo kupereka mwayi wopambana.
Mulimonsemo, zotsutsana zenizeni zitha kuganiziridwa. Kuti mukwaniritse ulemerero wofananira pakampani iliyonse, muyenera kuwerenga chitsanzocho ndikuiwala ndikumakhala ndi mzimu wosagwedezeka wa otchulidwa. Chifukwa otchulidwa ena ambiri, masauzande ambiri osadziwika, atha kugawana maluso koma sanangodalitsika ndi mnzake wabwino kwambiri, kuti amupatse zolemba zambiri, titchule: mwayi.
Khomo lachitatu lomwe Alex Banayan akutipatsa limatitenga mwachindunji ndi chikepe mpaka pamwamba. Pali omwe amasankha pamunda uliwonse, bizinesi kapena masewera, zaluso, zasayansi, zachuma kapena ukadaulo, akuyang'ana padziko lonse lapansi kuchokera pazenera lalitali kwambiri komanso lowoneka bwino lomwe tsogolo la nyerere mamiliyoni.
Sindikunena kuti bukuli silopatsa chidwi, kuti zogwirizana zamatsenga za miyoyo ndi tsogolo la opambana omwe akudutsa pamasambawa sizingakhale zolimbikitsa. Koma ndikulimbikira, njira yobwereza ndi chitsanzo ndiye chiyembekezo cha kulephera.
Chowonadi ndi chakuti chitsanzo cha wopambana pakadali pano chimathandizira kuti zolemba za zoyeserera zikhale zowona, za mtundu kapena mtundu womwe udabwera kuchokera kuderalo ndipo zimatha kuyika malingaliro awo, kumwetulira kwawo kapena zomwe zachitika pamwamba pamwamba pa zonena zawo.
Kodi mungafike bwanji pakhomo lachitatu losinthidwa kukhala chikepe? Zachidziwikire kuti ena mwa anthu omwe adatchulidwa m'bukuli amatibisalira chibwenzi chanthawi yake, kulumikizana kowoneka bwino kapena bizinesi yabizinesi. Mfundo ndiyakuti, amapereka chiyembekezo. Chifukwa chowonadi ndichakuti atha kukhala ena ambiri ndi luso, zaluso kapena mphatso yofananira.
Ndi nkhani yokhudza kubetcha, kukhazikika komanso zowona zambiri kuti muganizire kuti pazotheka kwambiri simungathe kuzipeza, osati pamwamba, osachepera. Genius siachilendo kwa anthu. Ndipo ngakhale siyandalama yomwe ili yofala kwambiri, zitha kunenedwa kuti pachinthu chilichonse padzakhala anthu masauzande ambiri omwe angathe kuchita chimodzimodzi kapena kuposa inu.
Ichi ndichifukwa chake zitseko nthawi zambiri zimakhala zokhazokha, zomwe zimayesa kusefa pakati pa alendo ambiri ofunitsitsa kulowa kapena yachiwiri komwe kumangolowa iwo omwe ali ndi kupambana pang'ono. Koma iwo, zitseko zachitatu ndi zikepe zawo zowala komanso zabwino zimawoneka mwa apo ndi apo.
Mukutha tsopano kugula The Third Door, buku losangalatsa lolembedwa ndi Alex Banayan, apa: