Zakhala zikunenedwa kuti palibe choyipa kuposa kudzimva wekha kukhala pafupi ndi anthu. Kusirira kotereku kwa miyoyo ya ena, komwe kumangokhala kwakusowa kapena kusapezeka, kumatha kukhala kodabwitsa modabwitsa.
Koma akutinso tanthauzo la kusungunuka ndi: chisangalalo chokhala wachisoni. Kutanthauzira kotereku kumapereka kale zosiyana zosiyana ndi kusungulumwa. Chilengedwe chimamveka chokha, kumverera koyera ndikulingalira ndipo kumadziwika, mosiyana, kuti panthawi ina anali wokondwa, wokondwa kwambiri.
Bukuli limalankhula za luso lokhala ndi chiyembekezo chodzipezera nthawi yosungulumwa. Matsenga ena amakhalapakati pamasamba awa omwe amafotokoza zachisoni komanso chilakolako cham'maganizo ndi chakuthupi, zomwe zimakumana ndi zowona zenizeni koma zimatipangitsa kusangalala ndi zoonadi zazing'ono zomwe zatsalira. Ndipo bukuli The Lonely City limatiphunzitsa kusungulumwa kwachilengedwe kwa anthu ena omwe amagawana, kuchokera pachitsime chakuya cha moyo wamunthu, zazifupi zakukhalapo kwa munthu.
Kukhala ndi moyo ndizambiri, kuzindikira kugonjetsedwa kofunikira pa gawo lililonse lomwe latengedwa, kukumana ndi manja omwe adzakutenge tsiku lina adzatha, kufuna kupenta kapena kulemba malingaliro ako padziko lapansi kuti athe kufotokoza momwe umawonera kusungulumwa komwe akutiyembekezera.
Ndipo pamapeto pake nkhaniyi ndiyofunikira, chifukwa kukhala kwayekha mumakhala milingo yayikulu yotsutsa zopangidwa ndi zinthuzo ndikukhalabe auzimu komanso osagwirika. Chifukwa pamapeto pake, tonse tikathawa nthawi yathu yomaliza kusungulumwa, titha kungokhala ndi chikumbukiro chosamveka bwino chomwe chimazimiririka kumapeto kwa kuwala komwe maso athu amawona.
Mutha kugula bukuli Mzinda wosungulumwa, buku laposachedwa la Olivia laing, Pano: