Ndani sanakhalepo nkhani yoletsedwa yachikondi? Ngakhale zitakhala chifukwa chakuti chikondi chonse nthawi zonse chimakhala chosavomerezeka ngakhalenso chifukwa cha kaduka. Ndizowona kuti zochepa zimachitika kuti zomwe zaletsedwa zimangokhala ndi ufulu wakugonana, mwachilengedwe. Koma nthawi zonse pamakhala zolemba zomwe zimapangidwa ngati ma totali amakhalidwe.
Chosangalatsa ndichakuti, mosiyana ndi zomwe zoletsa zilizonse, zoperewera kapena zosavomerezeka zomwe zatchulidwazo zimafuna, chikondi chomwe chimayang'anizana ndi vuto la masomphenya a ena, chimakhala cholimba, chimakhala champhamvu kwambiri, chimatha kusangalala kwambiri patsogolo pamalingaliro ndi mitundu yazoyenera.
Ichi ndichifukwa chake nkhani iyi ya wolemba Ana Merino, Wotsogozedwa ndi ngwazi ya Valeria yachikondi chosalemekeza, ya chilakolako pamaso pa zonse, ya kumenyedwa kwamphamvu ndi zotengeka zomwe zimayimitsidwa pamavuto osadziwikiratu a tsogolo, nthawi zonse zimangotigonjetsa ndi zomwe sindikudziwa zokhumba zosatheka kapena kutayika mwayi womwe mwina tinali nawo kapena tikufuna kukhala nawo ...
Valeria, mphunzitsi wachinyamata wachinyamata yemwe ali pachibwenzi chachinsinsi ndi Tom yemwe ali wamkulu zaka makumi atatu kuposa iye, akukumana ndi vuto lakumverera ndipo akufuna kumvetsetsa tanthauzo la chikondi.
Mtauni yomwe amaphunzitsira, Lilian amasowa popanda chifukwa pomwe amuna awo ali kutsidya lina ladziko. Greg, bambo yemwe amayi amutaya, amayendera kalabu yoyandikira pafupi kuti athamangitse kusakhutira kwake, mpaka tsiku lina atapezeka kuti ndi woipa kwambiri.
Kuyambira nthawi ngati izi popita kudera laling'ono lakumidzi, timasanthula zinsinsi za tsiku ndi tsiku za nzika zake. Miyoyo ya onsewa sikuti idzangodutsa kwazaka zopitilira makumi awiri, koma idzakonzedwanso ndi mphamvu yamaginito yazokonda, kusinthasintha kwangozi kapena chilungamo chandakatulo chomwe nthawi zina zochitika zosayembekezereka kwambiri zimatibweretsera.
Mapu achikondi amatsata njira ya anthu omwe amapanga nkhani zobisika za malo; malo osowa, zochitika zachilendo zimachotsedwa, kumene milandu yosamvetsetseka imachitika, kumene mikangano yaumwini ndi ya banja imakhalapo ndipo kumene kuyendetsa zabwino kumakhazikika pazofunikira kuti apitilize kukhala ndi moyo.
Mukutha tsopano kugula buku la «Mapu azokonda», buku la Ana Merino, apa: