Kukhala pamodzi nthawi zonse kumakhala kuyesa. Kuyanjana pakati pa omwe kale anali mchikondi nthawi zonse kumayenda mosiyanasiyana mosayembekezereka.
Kuwona banjali ngati mlendo si chinthu chachilendo (choyenera kukwiya). Wodzikonda kwambiri pachiyambi amasiya zopindika zake, mwina ngakhale zoyipa zake ndipo amapereka zabwino zake zokha. Mphamvu yakuthupi imakhala kwakanthawi. Chilichonse chimakonzekera kuti zenizeni zisinthidwe, zikhale zabwino kapena zoyipa, koma osasunga mawonekedwe ake apachiyambi.
Kusintha kwa chikondi, kusintha kwake kwamatsenga kapena koopsa (kutengera momwe mumawonekera) ndimachitidwe amalingaliro omwe amathawa asayansi kapena kuyerekezera kulikonse.
Ndipo kuchokera pamenepo bukuli likuyamba, likukamba za sayansi yachikondi, yamphamvu. Fikirani chidziwitso cha malire omaliza kupitirira chikondi.
Mary, mayi yemwe ali pamphambano yaumwini, asankha kupeza ntchito yapadera pansi pa ambulera yovuta ya "Kuyesera kwa Chibwenzi." Mary amatenga gawo ngati bwenzi lokonda kutengeka, kulipidwa ndi azimayi ena omwe amapatsidwa ntchito zothandizirana nazo.
Mbali ina yaubwenzi ndi Kurt, wosewera yemwe akufuna mayankho pazolephera zake. Mary ndi Kurt akukhala bwino, mwina onse atetezedwa mchikhalidwe chawo cha chikondi pakuwonetsera kulikonse. Mpaka itatha kudziwonetsera yokha pakati pawo.
A Mary ndi atsikana ena, monga Kurt, atha kukhala pafupi ndikuwona kukondana, kutaya mtima kwawo kwakukulu komanso kutayika kwawo.
Ndipo apeza mawonekedwe achikondi omwe amapezeka m'bukuli omizidwa ndikumatsutsana kwakumayeso komwe, ndikusandulika kukhala chowonera kapena chofanizira.
Mayankho pa nkhaniyi? Mwina sizochuluka momwe timayembekezera kapena mwina zonse kwa owerenga omwe amatha kuwerenga pakati pa mizere, kutanthauzira zizindikiritso ndikumvetsetsa, kutsanzira zomwe Mary kapena Kurt adakumana nazo.
Lingaliro lachikazi pankhaniyi ndichinthu china chodziwikiratu. Kodi chikondi chimakumana mosiyanasiyana mwa abambo ndi amai chifukwa chakunja?
Kudziwa za mnzake komanso za iwe wekha panthawi yakukonda kutha kukhala kiyi. Kuzindikira omwe tili pachiyambi cha kukopana sikungapewe kukonda kwakanthawi, koma kumatha kupewa maloto abodza kapena chiyembekezo chopusa.
Ndipo nthabwala, timapezanso nthabwala zamasautso athu monga anthu omwe amawoneka pakusintha kwamalingaliro.
Buku lathunthu lonena za chikondi linayandikira kupitilira mtundu wachikondi kuti lifike poti likupezeka. Chifukwa kukhalapo kopanda chikondi sikungatheke.
Tsopano mutha kugula bukuli Mayankho, Buku latsopano la Catherine Lacey, apa: