Bwanji ngati chithandizo chamabanja ambiri, kuyeserera kwakukulu, kuleza mtima ndi kulingalira pang'ono ... Ndizo zomwe zimaperekedwa kwa ife nthawi zonse tikamakonzekera chibwenzi ngati banja.
Koma pafupifupi aliyense, anzeru kwambiri 😛, tikudziwa bwino lomwe kuti zenizeni zikupita kwina. Zomwe ziphunzitsozo ndi zongopeka komanso zochitika zimangodalira zomwe zimapangitsa kuti munthu akhale wachikondi.
Rabih ndi Kristen ndinu ndi mnzanu. Zaka zapita ndipo chifukwa chakuti simukupeza makiyi omwe mudawasiya kungayambitse mphindi yatsopano yolimbana ndi munthu amene mumakhala nanu ndikukuthandizani (nthawi yomweyo kuti mumamuthandiza). Rabih ndi Kristen amapeza magawo atatu a chinthu chomwecho. Chikondi chake chimakhala ndi kutopa kwanthawi yayitali, kutopa komwe kumadziwonekera pamalo omwe amakhala pamodzi pazikhalidwe, manias, zizolowezi ndi zofuna zawo.
Pachifukwa ichi, chifukwa chakuzindikira zazing'ono, tsiku ndi tsiku, ndizosangalatsa kwambiri kuchita nawo nkhaniyi ya Rabih ndi Kristen, yomwe siimayerekezera kuti ndi buku lodzithandizira, koma galasi pomwe mungathe onani zazing'onozing'ono zopusa zomwe mungayambitse mikangano yopanda pake. Koma ndizotheka kutulutsa chosowa china chazinthu zazing'onozi, kuti tsiku limodzi labwino kuunikako, kuti kuwala kwa chikondi chomwe sichidzakhala ngati tsiku loyamba kuwunikira malo abata pa sofa, mikono ndi TV.
Padzakhala iwo omwe akufuna kulepheretsa cholinga chodziphunzitsira, ndi zidule zothetsera mikangano. Ndikungowona kufotokoza komveka komanso kosavuta kwa zomwe tili. Chinyengo chokha pa chilichonse ndi kukambirana, ndipo aliyense ayenera kukhazikitsa poyambira.
Chifukwa kukambirana, kuwonjezera apo, kumatha kubweretsa kusamvetsetsana chifukwa choti zomwe timafuna sizabwino nthawi zonse. Rabih ndi Kristen nthawi zina amakhala opusa pamikangano yawo, ngakhale amadziwika bwino. Banja lomwe lingatipangitse kuti tisangalale ndipo litipempha, osachepera, kuti titenge zinthu ndi kupumula, kugwiritsa ntchito nzeru zapakhomo zosinthidwa momwe tingakhalire, osatinso zina.
Mutha kugula bukuli kutopa kwa chikondi, wolemba wolemba waku Switzerland Alain de Botton, apa: