Kusintha kwamaphunziro kumakhala kodabwitsa nthawi zina. Ndi fayilo ya lankhulani ndi ine mofewaTonsefe timaganiza, molingana ndi lingaliro langa, pulogalamu yawayilesi Hablar por Hablar yomwe wolemba Macarena Berlin amatipatsa m'mawa.
Ndipo ndikunena za kusokonekera kwa akatswiri chifukwa Pita, protagonist wa bukuli akuwoneka kuti ali pakati pa udindo wake monga director wa pulogalamu yawayilesi komanso kuvomerezeka kwake kuti azitha kulowererapo pulogalamu yawayilesi m'mawa kwambiri.
Pita atha kukhala m'modzi wa mawu omwe Macarena amalola kuyankhula, kulumikizana, kutumiza kwa mawayilesi zomwe zimachitika ndi moyo womwe sukhala ngati wake, womwe umapulumuka m'manja mwake. Izi zikuwopsa Pita, monga zimachitikira tonsefe omwe timazindikira momwe chiwongolero chimatengera njira zosayembekezereka popita komwe tikupita.
Chosowacho, mantha a iwo omwe angawonongeke kwambiri ndi tsoka amatopetsa momwe angathere zikachitika. Pita ndi mkazi wathunthu, pamakhalidwe ake ambiri. Koma dzenje lamkati nthawi zonse limakhalapo, kuyembekezera, kuyembekezera kusintha kwa zochitika kuti lidziwike kwathunthu.
Kuchokera kwa Pita timaphunzira kuti mantha amafunika. Timafunikira mantha amkati omwe amatitsogolera kuti tigonjetse tokha, omwe timakumana nawo ndi moyo. Kupanda kutero, pamoyo wopanda mantha ogonjetsedwa, pakhoza kukhala mphindi pomwe kusowa chakudya kumadya chilichonse, ngakhale tsogolo.
Zikuwoneka kuti ndizoyenera kutseka ndemanga iyi ndi lingaliro logwirizana, lomwe Milan Kundera adatikweza buku lina lopezeka, The Unbearable Lightness of Being:
“Munthu sangadziwe zomwe angafune, chifukwa amakhala ndi moyo umodzi wokha ndipo alibe njira yofananizira ndi moyo wake wakale kapena kuwusintha m'moyo wake wamtsogolo. Palibe kuthekera kotsimikizira kuti zisankho zabwino kwambiri ndi ziti, chifukwa palibe kufananiza. Mwamunayo amakhala nthawi yonse yoyamba osakonzekera. Monga ngati wosewera adagwira ntchito yake popanda mtundu uliwonse wobwereza. Koma kodi moyo ungakhale ndi phindu lanji ngati kuyesa koyamba kukhala moyo womwewo? Ichi ndichifukwa chake moyo umawoneka ngati chosema. Koma osati sewero ndilo mawu enieni, chifukwa chojambula nthawi zonse chimakhala cholembedwa cha china chake, kukonzekera kujambula, pomwe chojambula chomwe ndi moyo wathu ndichidule chabe, cholembedwa chopanda utoto.
Mukutha tsopano kugula Háblame bajito, buku laposachedwa kwambiri la Macarena Berlin, apa: