Popeza Dr. Ochoa adawonekera pazenera kumayambiriro kwa zaka za m'ma 90, kugonana ndi sexology zinayamba kuyenda limodzi m'njira zofunikira pakuwulula kotchuka kwambiri. Nkhani yakugonana idatenga gawo la zokambirana ndi kafukufuku (monga chilichonse chomwe chikuwoneka pa TV). Zinali zabwino kwambiri kusiya kukhala ophunzitsidwa mwamavuto mpaka kusokonezedwa kwa miyezi ngati Afarisi ndi mutu wa woyimbayo Anyamata, anyamata, anyamata.
Chifukwa chake, abwenzi anga, m'malo mochita zogonana kupitilizabe kukhala chipinda chakuda chomwe chimapangitsa kuti anthu azikhala osawoneka bwino, ma phobias, ma pseudoerotic tricks komanso masomphenya a esoteric kwa iwo omwe sanadye mchira, chifukwa chakuti, kugonana kunakhala mutu wotsutsana . Monga lero zitha kukhala ngati spherifications ndi nayitrogeni zimayenda bwino ndi omelette wa mbatata kuphatikiza anyezi, (zikomo, MasterChef).
Kugonana m'mabuku kunasinthanso kumasulidwa. Chifukwa chinthu chimodzi ndichakuti zolemba zolaula kapena olemba ngati Marquis de Sade zomwe sipangakhale zatsopano, ndipo ndichinthu china kuyandikira kugonana ngati chinthu chowerengera m'mabuku omwe amapanga sayansi.
Lero tikupeza mabuku ogonana ndimagwira ntchito yophunzitsanso, yopuma kapena yobwezera zochitika zatsopano monga polyamory kapena sologamia (yomwe nthawi yogonana imangokhala yoposa nyani, koma bwerani, pali zomwe zapangidwazo ...)
Apa ndikutenga zomwe zimawoneka zosangalatsa kwa ine. Tikuyamba ndi mulingo wa 5 womwe ungakhale ndi mavuto mtsogolo ...
Mkazi woyipa. Kusintha komwe kudzakumasuleni, ndi Noemi Casquet
Palibe kukayika kuti kusintha kwakugonana komwe kumafuna kuti, pakati pazogwirizana pakati pa anthu, kumafuna mkazi womangidwa mofanana ndi mwamuna. Ndizoyesa kuganiza kuti izi zachitika kale. Koma zenizeni nthawi zonse zimadabwitsa kuwonetsa magawo ake osweka ...
Kuzindikira momveka bwino zomwe zili zoyipa kumasula kuyang'anizana ndendende ndi amene amaika chizindikirocho kuchokera pamakhalidwe achikale.
Mkazi woyipa amazindikira kuti ndi chifukwa cha chikumbumtima cha womuyang'anirayo pantchito ndipo monyadira kwake amawonetsa kusowa kolingalira pamalingaliro oponderezedwa komanso oponderezedwa. Vuto ndiloti ma corsets amakhalidwe adakongoletsedwabe kuti azibisala amakono. Palibe kumasulidwa kwakukulu kuposa komwe kumachitika kuchokera kumalo okondana kwambiri. Palibe chopindulitsa ndi mzimu komanso moyo koposa chisangalalo cha kugonana kopambana kwambiri.
Ataona kuti akaunti yake idawunikidwa ndi Instagram ndipo mawu ake adatonthozedwa kangapo, Noemí Casquet akuyambitsa uthenga wake wamphamvu kudzera m'buku ili: "Mwa zonse zomwe ndingasankhe, ndidasankha kukhala mfulu. Ulendo womwe ndidapanga mkati unali chokumana nacho komanso chokumana nacho chophunzira kwa ine. Izi, kuphatikiza zaka zofufuzira pankhani zachiwerewere monga mtolankhani, zanditsogolera kukhala yemwe ndili: mkazi woyipa. " Takulandilani ku pangano ili, mlongo. Mwalandiridwa, mkazi woyipa.
Kugonana kwa Dummies wolemba Ruth Westheimer
Mukakhala rookie, ngakhale mumakhulupirira zochuluka motani, mumatha kuphunzira kuti sizinthu zonse zomwe mumaganiza kuti mumadziwa zinali zowona, makamaka m'malo ngati kugonana komwe malingaliro akumwamba kwa wina atha kukhala gehena kwa wina ngati kuli kofunikira kulumikizana kupitilira mayankho ofunikira a kupereka ndi kutenga ...
Kugonana ndi gawo lachilengedwe m'miyoyo ya anthu, koma kwazaka zambiri kwakhala kukuthiridwa mu nthano zabodza komanso zoletsa. Dr.Ruth Westheimer akuchotsa pamasamba awa, malingaliro olakwika ndi mabodza ndipo amamupatsa chidziwitso chambiri chothandizira ogonana kuti apatse owerenga makiyi kuti apeze chisangalalo chachikulu kuchokera pachibwenzi. Mmenemo mupezanso chilichonse chodziwitsa za kugonana m'zaka za zana la XNUMX.
Chifukwa chiyani kugonana kumakhala kosangalatsa? ndi Jared Diamond
Sizimakhala zowawa kuyandikira munthu wolemekezeka ngati Jared Diamond kuti aziganiza zogonana ngati chinthu choyambirira cha anthropological. Buku lopangidwa kukhala mtundu wa vademecum wa mfundo yogonana.
Nchifukwa chiyani anthu ali amodzi mwa mitundu yochepa yomwe imagonana mwakachetechete? Ndipo nchifukwa ninji amagonana tsiku lililonse la mwezi ndi chaka? Kodi nchifukwa ninji akazi ndiwo nyama zokhazokha zomwe zimadutsa pakutha? Chifukwa chiyani mbolo yamwamuna imakhala yayikulu mosafunikira?
Mafunso awa ndi enanso ofunikira amapeza yankho lawo poyang'ana momwe Jared Diamond amaponyera moyo wakugonana wamunthu, wosiyana ndi mitundu yonse ya nyama.
Pulofesa wa physiology, ornithology ndi geography, komanso wopambana Pulitzer Prize, Diamond ali ndi maphunziro apadera komanso amatha kufikira mafunso awa. Kugonana kwaumunthu kwakhala kukuwerengedwa kwazaka zochepa chabe, ndipo sikumapereka mwayi wofufuza zasayansi. Komabe, Diamond amatha kugwiritsa ntchito zidziwitso zake zasayansi komanso nthabwala zake kuzinthu zosangalatsa za chisinthiko zomwe zidapangitsa chidwi chathu chogonana, ndikuwonetsa momwe adathandizira kuti akhale anthu.
The Vagina Book, lolembedwa ndi Nina Brochmann
Palibe nthano yayikulu padziko lapansi pano kuposa chilichonse chokhudza nyini: ma G- spots, ma orgasms anu, clitoris yanu. Ziwalo zachikazi ndizosadziwika bwino koma zongopeka kwambiri za dziko lachimuna. Ndipo, malinga ndi zomwe tawona m'bukuli, likhoza kuwonetsanso zodabwitsa kwa eni ake osokonezeka omwe angayesere kuchita izi podzipeza okha.
Ndikufuna kunena momveka bwino kuti akufuna kuti aone asanayambe kalikonse kokhudza chithandizo cha kugonana pa nkhaniyi, ndibwino kuti asiye nkhaniyi. Ngati wolemba alankhula momasuka za pakhosi, musayembekezere kuti ndidzakhala wachisoni, momwemonso ndikasanthula buku lokhudza mbolo ndi anzawo awiriwo ...
Physiology ya nyini ndi yosiyana siyana komanso yovuta, mahomoni amachitapo ndipo kupyolera mwa izo, zomwe zaka mazana ambiri zingatsimikizidwe ngati "zoseketsa" zosiyana za thupi zimatulutsidwa. Sizingakhale njira ina iliyonse kuti kugonana kwa chipangizochi kunali ndi zosiyana siyana komanso zotheka. Mutu wa nyenyezi, monga momwe sizikanakhalira poyankhula za kamwana, ndi clitoris. Ngati mukuganiza kuti ndinu odziwa bwino thupi laling'ono ili (mwa tanthawuzo, si chinthu changa), pitani kwa iwo omwe akufotokoza izi m'masamba awa ...
Koma Nina akutiwuzanso za kupezeka kwa chiwalo ichi kumatenda opatsirana pogonana komanso momwe zimakhudzira kuyambitsidwa mwachindunji kwa zinthu zosiyanasiyana zakulera ... Chotsani komanso mosapita m'mbali, pitani.
Mankhwala, maphunziro, zokumana nazo, chidziwitso chonse chofotokozedwa m'njira yosangalatsa komanso yosavuta. Ndipo ngakhale kuti chiwerewere chimakhala ndi kulemera kwake, si nkhani yayikulu m'bukuli. Kudziwa nyini kumangopitilira chiwonetsero chogonana ichi. Chifukwa chake, tikulimbikitsidwanso makamaka kuti tidziwe bwino momwe zingagwiritsire ntchito (ndikuwululidwa mwanjira yosangalatsa kwambiri) yamitengo yofiyira kapena maliseche, tanthauzo lamoyo wamtundu wathu ...
Sexperimentado, wolemba Nayara Malnero
Limodzi mwa mabuku osangalatsa ophunzitsira oyamba kumene paulendo woyamba wamoyo wonse. Akulimbikitsidwa kuti achinyamata azitha kuchita zachiwerewere ...
Kugonana ndi buku lanu. Ntchito yothetsa kukayika kwanu konse zakugonana m'njira yosavuta komanso yothandiza. Ndipo mwina muli ndi mafunso chikwi chimodzi chokhudzana ndi kugonana komwe simumayerekeza kufunsa makolo anu kapena anzanu.
Ngati iyi ndi nthawi yanu yoyamba, mwina mumadzimva kuti mulibe nkhawa kapena mwamva mphekesera zomwe zimakusowetsani mtendere. Nayara akuyankha popanda kutenga njira iliyonse, mwachindunji. Ndicho mudzazindikira thupi lanu ndi la mwana wamwamuna kapena wamkazi yemwe mumamukonda, ndipo zikuwongolerani, popanda mafotokozedwe osafunikira, kuti chidziwitso chanu chogonana (kapena chanu) chikhale chosangalatsa komanso chotetezeka. Ikuthandizaninso kukuthandizani kumvetsetsa zomwe zikuchitika mthupi lanu komanso momwe mumamvera, komanso momwe mungafotokozere, mwachitsanzo, kwa makolo anu kapena anzanu. Musaganize kawiri ndikuyesera!
