Mabuku atatu abwino kwambiri a Walter Riso

Mu mtundu womwe ukukula kwambiri wa kudzithandiza, wolemba waku Argentina Walter Riso amapambana mtundu wa nkhani za anthropocentric. Machiritso, chiyembekezo, chiyembekezo chodalirika, zonse zimayambira mkati mwake monga chothandizira chofunikira cha kukhazikika kwa malingaliro.

Chifukwa thanzi la maganizo, munda wachonde umenewo wothiridwa feteleza wochuluka wa feteleza zotheka, kuchokera ku chipembedzo kupita ku zamaganizo kupyolera m’malo owopsa, nthaŵi zonse zimayambira pa kukumana ndi liwu lamkati. Ndipo anyamata ngati Walter Riso ndi akatswiri pakukweza mawu amkati awo kuposa phokoso.

Chowonadi ndichakuti masiku ano palibe amene angadandaule za mtundu uwu wa olemba akulu a mgwirizanowu wachimwemwe ndi ife eni. Kuchokera kwa olemba dziko monga Santandreu o Javier Iriondo, ngakhale zosatha Kalulu o Bucay ngakhale kufikira ma signature atsopano a mafunde monga: Marie Kondo.

Koma Walter Riso, monga katswiri wazamaganizidwe kwazaka zambiri, amabweretsa chisungiko cha chidziwitso chamkati chomwe chidapangitsa sayansi, kudziwa zambiri kumapangitsa modus operandi kukhutiritsa aliyense payekha.

Mabuku apamwamba atatu olimbikitsidwa ndi Walter Riso

Kugwa mchikondi ndi inu Kufunika kofunika kodzidalira

Chiyambi cha nkhaniyi. Mayi wazipolowe zonse zotheka. Popanda kudzidalira, chilichonse chimatha kumaliza ndikuphimbidwa ndi mdima. Kumverera kwa kudzidalira kumataya blanche ya mapu kuzinthu zoyipa kwambiri mwa ife.

Poganiza kuti sitingathe kuchita, kuchita kapena kuyang'anizana ndi china chilichonse m'moyo wathu, kumafooketsa chikhalidwe chathu, kumatipangitsa kukhala opanda pake ndikumanga makoma owopsa kumbuyo komwe tikhoza kukhala otsekeka. Kudzidalira kumawonjezera malingaliro abwino. Kuphatikiza apo, mwazinthu zina, zimathandizira kukwaniritsa bwino ntchito, kukonza ubale ndi anthu, kukhazikitsa ubale wolimba ndi ena ndikupeza kudziyimira pawokha komanso kudziyimira pawokha.

Limbani mtima: yambitsani kukondana ndi inu "modzilimbitsa nokha" zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala osangalala tsiku lililonse komanso kulimbana ndi ziwopsezo za moyo watsiku ndi tsiku.

Kukonda kapena kudalira?

Mu Armistice yomwe kugwa m'chikondi kumaphatikizapo, chitetezo chathu chonse chitsitsidwa ndikudzipereka kwakanthawi kumoto woyaka moto, titha kuyamba kulemba zolemba zopambana kwambiri pamoyo wathu. Njira yosasinthika kwambiri ya chikondi chonse. Kudzipeleka mwamaganizo sikutanthauza kuzimiririka mwa ena, koma kudziphatikiza nokha mwaulemu.

Chikondi chathanzi ndi awiri, pomwe palibe amene amataya. Bukuli likufuna kuthandiza anthu omwe akhudzidwa kapena amakhudzidwa ndi chikondi chopanda thanzi ndikuwongolera maanja omwe sanaipitsidwe kuti apitilize kugwiritsa ntchito chizolowezi chokondana kwambiri komanso popanda zomata.

Ndasanzika kale kwa iwe, tsopano ndakuyiwala bwanji

Mmenemo, amabweretsa pamodzi njira zingapo zothandiza kuti kulekanako kupirire, kutithandiza kuthana ndi ululu mgawo lililonse la zomwe Riso amatanthauzira kuti "chisoni chokhudzidwa": kukana, mkwiyo, kukhumudwa, kukambirana ndi kuvomereza.

Kuti akwaniritse izi, amatitsogolera pantchito yonseyi, akugogomezera kuti sitiyenera kudzipatsa ulemu komanso kupeza ntchito yomwe tingachite pamoyo wathu. Nthawi imathandiza, ndizowona, koma nthawi iyenera kuthandizidwa. "