Me zai faru idan yawancin ma'aurata sun sami fa'ida, babban adadin tabbaci, yawan haƙuri da ƙarancin hankali ... Wannan shine abin da ake watsa mana koyaushe lokacin da muke shirin dangantaka kamar ma'aurata.
Amma kusan kowa da kowa, mafi wayo 😛, mun sani sarai cewa gaskiya tana tafiya zuwa wasu wurare. Cewa theories for theoretical conditions and practice is under the dictates of temperaments, moods and will to maintain love.
Rabih da Kristen ku ne da abokin aikin ku. Shekaru sun shuɗe kuma kasancewar ba za ku iya samun maɓallan inda kuka bar su ba na iya haifar da sabon lokacin faɗa da mutumin da ke zaune tare da ku kuma yana tallafa muku (a daidai lokacin da kuke tallafa mata). Rabih da Kristen suna samun kashi uku cikin huɗu na abu ɗaya. Ƙaunarsa tana fama da gajiya mai ɗorewa, gajiya da ke bayyana a cikin wannan sarari inda zaman tare ke haɗe al'adu, maniyyata, son zuciya da so.
A saboda wannan dalili, saboda wannan sanannen sananne a cikin ƙarami, a cikin yau da kullun, yana da ban sha'awa sosai don shiga cikin wannan labarin na Rabih da Kristen, wanda baya yin kamar littafin taimakon kai ne, amma madubi ne inda zaku iya duba waɗancan cikakkun bayanai marasa hankali waɗanda za ku iya haifar da rikice -rikice marasa amfani. Amma kuma yana yiwuwa a fitar da wata buƙata ga waɗancan ƙananan girgiza, don wata rana mai kyau haske ya fito, ta yadda hasken soyayya wanda ba zai taɓa zama kamar ranar farko ba zai haskaka yanayin kwanciyar hankali na sofa, makamai da talabijin ..
Za a sami waɗanda ke son murƙushe niyyar ɓarna, tare da dabaru don dakatar da lokacin rikici. Ina kawai ganin bayyananne da madaidaicin bayanin abin da muke. Dabarar kawai ga komai ita ce tattaunawa, kuma a can dole ne kowa ya kafa wuraren farawa.
Domin tattaunawa, haka ma, koyaushe tana iya haifar da rashin fahimta saboda ƙaddarar mu ba koyaushe ce mafi kyau ba. Rabih da Kristen abin dariya ne a wasu lokuta a cikin muhawarar su, kodayake ana iya gane su sosai. Ma'aurata waɗanda za su ƙare su sa mu murmushi kuma waɗanda za su gayyace mu, aƙalla, mu ɗauki abubuwa tare da nishaɗin nishaɗi, don amfani da falsafar cikin gida da ta dace da yadda muke kasancewa, ba tare da ƙari ba.
Kuna iya siyan littafin gajiyar soyayyada marubucin Switzerland Alain de Botton, a nan: